Does anyone have any tips on how to not cry easily? In reasent years i have pin through a ...

DUMMY August 20, 2023 11:40 am

Does anyone have any tips on how to not cry easily? In reasent years i have pin through a kot of sh*t and it is even getting worse. I have never been a crybaby but now everything trigers crying and i hate ut, any idias how can i not cry, stop it or dilate it?

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    GXypher August 20, 2023 11:49 am

    just cry ╥﹏╥ I swear it makes a difference. don't bottle up your feelings because they will always explode at some point. That doesn't make you a crybaby, just treat crying as an outlet for all those messed up things that you've been through:)

    y'know I don't know the story of your life but chair up hahahahahahahotdog.

    DUMMY August 20, 2023 12:01 pm
    just cry ╥﹏╥ I swear it makes a difference. don't bottle up your feelings because they will always explode at some point. That doesn't make you a crybaby, just treat crying as an outlet for all those mess... GXypher

    Thank you so much i will, but the bad think is i am also doing it in front of people like neighbors. Yesterday i was in an argument with one very hostile lady and i brust out crying so hard i couldn't even breath. And crying in front of anyone is not something i want ╥﹏╥

    GXypher August 20, 2023 12:06 pm
    Thank you so much i will, but the bad think is i am also doing it in front of people like neighbors. Yesterday i was in an argument with one very hostile lady and i brust out crying so hard i couldn't even bre... DUMMY

    daaaang that must've been a pretty heated argument if you cried

    DUMMY August 20, 2023 12:42 pm
    daaaang that must've been a pretty heated argument if you cried GXypher

    Tell me about it i so want to live in a house and have at least 1000 meters distens from all sides and no neighbors near me.

    GXypher August 20, 2023 2:17 pm
    Tell me about it i so want to live in a house and have at least 1000 meters distens from all sides and no neighbors near me. DUMMY

    ahahahahaha same and even tho neighbors are near mine we never really talk cuz i always stay inside my room when i have nothing to do;-; my parents do the socializing

    tzking August 20, 2023 2:22 pm

    Is this because of your hormone? Or is this a trauma response? I used to be someone who never cried. But two days ago I started crying in front of my colleagues! How embarrassing! And its not like anything major happened either

    DUMMY August 20, 2023 9:35 pm
    ahahahahaha same and even tho neighbors are near mine we never really talk cuz i always stay inside my room when i have nothing to do;-; my parents do the socializing GXypher

    Ahahaha same here i smile when i need to but inside is like go home leave me alone, don't you have work i want to go home ( ̄∇ ̄")
    I hate going to straighten thinks with them becouse they get mad even though it is their falt but they get mad and blame me.

    DUMMY August 20, 2023 9:42 pm
    Is this because of your hormone? Or is this a trauma response? I used to be someone who never cried. But two days ago I started crying in front of my colleagues! How embarrassing! And its not like anything majo... tzking

    I do not ting it is hormone because i was a tough cookie (exeot for sad movies i cry very hardm especially when animals die) but never infront of people. But for kike 2 years i cannot hold it in.
    Trouma response not sure about it but maibe it could be hiting close to home. When i fight with my dad i awlays end up in tears (and i am in the right).
    What happened? What is the issue in your case. From experience but not mine i was just a witness, cilegues can be very nice and supporting, i hooe yours were like that and understood you.

    tzking August 21, 2023 6:37 am
    I do not ting it is hormone because i was a tough cookie (exeot for sad movies i cry very hardm especially when animals die) but never infront of people. But for kike 2 years i cannot hold it in. Trouma respo... DUMMY

    If I psychoanalysis myself, I think what happened was, when some years ago my dad died, lock down started, I became unemployed, broke up with my 7 years long boyfriend, I kind of disassociate myself from everything. I was ok. And Didn't cry for any of this matters. Now I'm again starting to associate myself with life, and realty is kind of hitting me. And small to smallest inconvenience makes the water gate flow............

    DUMMY August 23, 2023 9:34 pm
    If I psychoanalysis myself, I think what happened was, when some years ago my dad died, lock down started, I became unemployed, broke up with my 7 years long boyfriend, I kind of disassociate myself from everyt... tzking

    I am sorry for your father! And in my humbke opinion it is better that you and the boyfriend broke up, i hope and wish to you to find an amazing new person.
    7t is quite true from my point 8f view when all tge bad thinks are happening we put our armor on, but when it is finally off we need to start diling with all the delayed emotions!
    Sending you lots of huhgs and i hope everything becomes better