HUGE PROBLEM

DAT ASSS November 4, 2016 12:34 pm

So I'm already 20 and i can't seem to get romantically attracted to the opposite sex, i've been a Fujoshi since i was 14 years old. I don't know but i feel like.... me, being a Fujoshi keeps me from dating someone i always end up shipping my suitors to each other. (╯°Д °)╯╧╧ i can't see myself dating some guy. this is really messing me up i don't know what to do ヽ(`Д´)ノ

Responses
    jackO'lantern November 4, 2016 12:56 pm

    we're totally on the same boat there! I'll be turning 20 soon, too, and I've been called a blunt person for being obnoxious about pheromones and all ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ .. plus, I keep thinking that if I have to date someone, they have to be able to keep up with me and my world (including my fujoshi side i suppose) (≧∀≦)

    Nocturnal November 4, 2016 1:30 pm

    Omg same I thought I was the only one who couldn't imagine myself in a relationship after becoming a fujoshi, everyone thinks im weird because I have zero interest in anything remotely romantic but I'm okay living the fujoshi life :P

    But I wouldn't worry to much about it, if it's meant to happen it'll happen right? Well that's what I think anyway :3

    LessThanThree November 4, 2016 2:09 pm

    It's always possible you're asexual. Asexual doesn't necessarily mean you dislike sex or find it gross. If you're asexual you never experience sexual attraction. You might like sex, but you're never like, "Whoa, that person is hot. I would totally sleep with them." Have you ever experienced it before? If you're 20 like me and have never experienced it before then odds are you're asexual.

    Anonymous November 4, 2016 2:42 pm

    Come on ! I'm 25 and I feel fabulous being like this so chill babe! (⌒▽⌒)

    akaniox November 4, 2016 4:40 pm

    idk, but i'm an ex-fujoshi.. i was a fujoshi since i'm 13 y.o and when i'm 21 i just realized that every human DEFINITELY has an interest (idk how to spell it lol) to their opposite sex and what? i've got a boyfreind when i'm 21 and we married ^^ actually sometimes i read yaoi manga tho but i loved my husband as well ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ノ~

    LessThanThree November 4, 2016 5:15 pm
    idk, but i'm an ex-fujoshi.. i was a fujoshi since i'm 13 y.o and when i'm 21 i just realized that every human DEFINITELY has an interest (idk how to spell it lol) to their opposite sex and what? i've got a boy... akaniox

    This might just be a language barrier and I'm misunderstanding what you're saying, but it is not true that all humans definitely have an interest in the opposite sex. For one thing, there are gay people, and there are aromantic and asexual people.

    DAT ASSS November 12, 2016 6:12 am

    Wow thanks guys all of you are so nice! SO I WAS NOT THE ONLY ONE ( ̄∇ ̄'') good to know! I've done some research too i might actually be asexual
    ┑( ̄Д  ̄)┍ i draw manga (Hardcore YAOI) and i really Adore male physique but when i actually saw one i felt nothing i only had the urge to Draw the body for future reference ( ̄∇ ̄")