Amen to that (▰˘◡˘▰)
She needs both of them in my opinion. Blaine so she had someone who loved and understood her, Van so she had someone naive enough that she could let her guard down and actually let herself trust others.
Because my take away from Blaine’s ending was that, while she did love him, she would never trust him because he was just as much a schemer as her. Van however, is naive to how awful she really was and just as (if not more) infatuated, which is why she felt like she didn’t need to be as guarded with him, in terms of being worried that he might turn on her one day.
So between the two men, there would have been better stability for her.
Nope, I still like Blaine more than Van.