-Replying to myself as Im blocked xDDD but the message is to TMSM-
Ok, since you keep flipping everything to make it personal about me, my insecurities [still didn't tell me what Im insecure about xD] and accusations about me, let's go back to basics, to the Jinx story and characters only, shall we? Also I sincerely apologize for being pathetic and calling JK 'Boxer' when he's an MMA fighter. That changes a whole lot in our discussion.
I won't be forcing any of my opinions, now you tell me how you see the story and I listen. I have a few questions Id love to hear your opinion about.
1. How would you describe and call Dans and JK first sex scene, and how they started their sexual relation?
2. Why did Dan hit JK in defense when they were in the shower?
3. I know JK cannot hear Dan's thoughts so he might be not aware he does something against his will. But how would you describe Dans body language and reaction during their sex?
I'd be very happy if you explained to me like I'm 5, why do we see those actions differently. You know my opinion already
If anyone is following this drama at this point and is curious it started in this thread https://www.mangago.zone/home/mangatopic/14306020/ where I saw comments between Damien and Tora and I felt like Damien was attacked for nothing, but anyone interested can read it and have their own opinion
Wdym "it's ok to enjoy fictional rape" irl or in fiction rape is rape you can't say smth like that. Nah but ppl who genuinely enjoy reading rape need therapy ngl
You don’t have the support for your opinion. Learn to differentiate between fictional and reality. Maybe you are the one needing therapy.
https://www.healthyplace.com/abuse/rape/rape-fantasy-does-it-mean-you-want-to-be-raped
Human sexuality experts emphatically state that rape fantasy is not wrong, but healthy and normal.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-myths-sex/202003/why-are-rape-fantasies-so-common?amp
As you can see, forced sex fantasies have a rich psychology behind them and people may have these fantasies for wildly different reasons. In many cases, these fantasies don’t have a deeper meaning beyond someone just having an active imagination, a desire for sexual thrills, or a penchant for domination and submission. However, in other cases, they may have their roots in coping with trauma.
https://metro.co.uk/2017/11/29/why-do-half-of-women-have-fantasies-about-being-raped-7099630/amp/
In real-life contexts, rape – meaning sex against your will – is deeply traumatising. It’s not at all ‘sexy’. It’s an intense violation that causes high levels of distress.
https://medium.com/sexography/can-we-fantasise-about-raping-people-687c1e296dfc
And it’s incredibly important to note that while rape fantasies are common, this does not mean that women secretly want to be raped. There is a huge difference between acted out role-play, imagined scenarios, and real-life experiences. No one asks to be raped, no one deserves to be raped, and how common forced sex fantasies are in no way justifies unwanted sexual contact of any nature.
After research on the subject, psychologists and sexologists agree today that those fantasies are very common, completely healthy, and reveal a core element in female eroticism.
First of all, there is an important distinction between such fantasies and an actual rape experience. In no way does having the fantasy imply a desire to be raped in real life. Psychologist Michael Castleman, in his article Why Do Women Have Rape Fantasies? on Psychology Today, dismisses as obsolete the view that fantasies always reflect wishes. Therefore, women who have rape fantasies do not actually want to be coerced into sex.
It’s a fantasy. Not reality. You would do best to stop confusing the two. You are suggesting therapy for something healthy and common.
Shan was told this when Tora called out bad behavior when a cyber bully attacked me and the OP. Tora didn’t attacked anyone. That lie, and a few other lies is why I chose to ignore the bait validation questions that they think would support their POV if I explained what they see. Shan’s questions are in bad faith as he attacked me and Tora with lies and manipulation.
How about fictional war story? Or a horror?
For some peoplewho discuss if it's rape or not and say it's only POV of individuals. Definition: "unlawful sexual intercourse or any other sexual penetration of the vagina, anus, or mouth of another person, with or without force, by a sex organ, other body part, or foreign object, without the consent of the person subjected to such penetration"
Episode 3:
Dan says: "I can't do that, there's no way it would fit inside me"
JK repons: "If you waste my time like that last little bitch, Dont expect to be send home safe and sound".
Little bitch referring to a person he just beaten up in front of Dan.
Episode 7
Dan"Wait sir, not here" [he's uncomfortable with sex in public] "Stop"
He even HITS him in defense and continues to say to stop in EP 8
Episode 12
JK puts the sex toy on his dick and Dan is clearly terrified. JK puts his hand on Dans lips and fucks him before he says anything. He says "I hate it"
Episode 14
Dan says JK is too deep and and that hurts and to be gentler. JK forces to kiss him and continues the rough sex
Episode 18
Dan just says "You can't just" and in his inner thoughts he admits this is why he did NOT want to be in a bigger debt with JK
Episode 19
Dan during sex "I hope its over soon"
Episode 20
Dan "please let me down, please not like this"
Also we are episode 20 and thi is THE FIRST TIME Dan even got hard
Episode 24
He once again ask to slow down and stop and has trouble breathing in the position they do it
Episode 28
"This is to rough, I cant" after he wanted to finger himself in his own speed and terms but JK didn't let him and fingers him himself
Also thinks the position is humiliating, so normally he wouldn't consent to do it but he's forced to as JK pays and required him to do all the uncomfortable stuff
I can't be bothered to go any further, I think that's already enough