NGL

Not sure which comments you saw but I’m pretty sure the majority here agrees with you lol me included

Yeah ik, but I read this awhile back when it first came out in mangago. Chapter 1-4 and I seen a lot of people in TikTok especially and some comments here, tolerating this kind of behavior. I just wanted to get it out of my chest lol

Oh man, I saw some scary shit here.

Oh trust me I get it! I wrote my part about how you can and can’t write characters that are supposed to be assholes on here and jaekyung, however nice his design is is just inexcusable, like there is just no way to redeem this character in a adequate way, none

Believe me when I tell you we lost another one. ☠ Atp Dan's feelings for Jaekyung are so out of no where that I'm sure they //are// in fact just stockholm syndrome ☠

Stockholm syndrome is a coping mechanism to a captive or abusive situation.(** Learn what abusive situation this definition is talking about because it is a different kind of abusive behavior than what is in Jinx.) People develop positive feelings toward their captors or abusers over time. This condition applies to situations including child abuse, coach-athlete abuse, relationship abuse and sex trafficking

https://www.choosingtherapy.com/stockholm-syndrome/#:~:text=Some%20of%20the%20more%20common,documented%20in%20the%20research%20include%3A&text=Feeling%20closely%20bonded%20or%20attached,of%20the%20captor%20or%20abuser

Look at psychological causes, signs and symptoms.
It gives you 5 Examples of Stockholm Syndrome. None are close. 4 is the Stockholm syndrome abusive relationship. You have no case. This isn’t Stockholm syndrome.
It is an abusive relationship. He is toxic but there are elements missing for Stockholm syndrome and many elements there saying it can’t be Stockholm syndrome.

Xylio, since I been here which was about July 25. No one, I repeat, NO ONE has been arguing with “It is not rape” because Jk is hot and excusing him of your pov.
No one.
There are ones saying it is not rape. They are saying it is SA and abusive. They are not defending him. They are not arguing about it. They have been defending themselves from hostile behavior. It seems one of the haters/ cyber bullies on this page is spreading misinformation about this group who is standing with the story.
Have a civil conversation with me. I don’t want an argument.
In this group one is a straight male that has many females that loves yaoi. His wife, his best friend, and their friends. He is called in to analyze something or settle something. JK being hot isn’t a factor. He doesn’t care.
I think this story is dull from other stories. JK isn’t my cup of tea. JK being “hot” isn’t a factor.
Another one is a rape survivor who said it was not rape. She hated the story. She hated the seme.
I can’t speak for others. I can say his attractiveness isn’t a factor for the group since before I got here. The one that has been here the longest out of us, JK minus the violent behavior reminds her of her toxic x boyfriend and not her type of guy.
We are saying it is not rape but SA and abusive. We are not defending him. We are not excusing him. We are carefully reading the story. Dan doesn’t repeatedly say no as you as claiming. Some of those no’s are to questions. It doesn’t seem you are taking all the factors of the details into the story carefully. At the end of chapter 3, it is easy to think rape. Chapter 4 does change it.
If you are a genuine reader it is logical to see rape. If you are a genuine read it is logical not to see rape as the story is saying with all the details.
Most here are cyber bullies forcing their pov of rape. See rape or you are a sicko rape apologist needing professional help. Where we allowed many POVs. You are already are forcing your pov believing your right in your opinion without looking at the story carefully and altering details. Things happened that was wrong. JK threatened him. Jk slamming him. Rape was not one of them with all the details and facts. Again, I don’t want to argue but we can talk about it. In a civil conversation and respectful. Put your guns away.

Show me the ones “tolerating” here. No one has since I have been here beside a lie spread by cyber bullies.
We have not looked before our comments.
“Saying there is no rape” does not excuse him of his behavior.
It is like saying there is no incest.
To think “there is no rape” = excuses him of his toxic behavior is illogical. No one is tolerating his toxic behavior by saying that.
It is saying—There is no rape but SA and abuse.
There are many different POVs. Your pov is rape. Not everyone has that pov and JK’s hottest may or may not be a factor. If you seen some comments here. None of us has any comments about how hot he is.

Guys, don’t Reply to that Tmsm lol. Bitch has been going around arguing with people over stupid shit. Spare your words.

Bivhh is part of a hate group and lied about what happened. Bivhh needs to learn to stop gaslighting and learn respect. I am a man. Those slurs for women should be erased from everyone’s dictionary.

Bivhh, stop cyber stalking us. You have choices. If you don’t like what we say and can’t have a mature conversation, you are free to not speak to us or/and to leave. You are not free to degrade us or speak that way to us.
You can choose to leave us alone or have a civil conversation that is respectful. You are not free to control us or others. You are not free to continue to gaslight and cyber stalk us. We have tried to move on but you attacked me. It is disgusting. We will not scoop to your level or mentality. I was not arguing. I was defended myself from cyber bullies and trolls, like you. Your comments are disgusting. I blocked you after your disgusting behavior - get the memo. Stop causing drama.

It IS an abusive relationship but what Dan is developing isnt stockholm. Its probably a different type of trauma bond and well the suspension bridge effect for sure. Stockholm syndrome is just one of the many types of trauma bonding, its better to be more discreet about these things if you're not educated on them since i made the mistake of confusing it for Stockholm as well.

Damn well! My bad ig I should've done research or sum, please don't argue Like I can delete this comment if y'all want

IM SORRY IM GENUINELY SCARED NOW LOL, uh just reply if you want me to delete my comment??

DONT WORRY DONT DELETE IT YOU AAS SPEAKING FACTS

it wasnt that deep im sure someone out there said it wasnt rape cause they thought jaekyung was hot. Prolly a 12 yro braindead middle schooler though

Noooo don’t be scared, I get the frustration and it is true that some people try to play jaekyung down or like him because of how he looks. So you are not exactly wrong!

I think their first time was definitely SA or even rape, as rape is defined as unlawful sexual activity or someone being threatened/forced to partake in sexual activity. Also ik ppl who call jk hot and call it a day in discord and I'm pretty sure I saw some in TikTok. I'm sorry if I offended you, but I really didn't read the full story so idk if JK did anything else or if Dan did sum too Again sorry

ITS OK DAN WAS INTIMIDATED AND PRESSURED JNTO MAKING A DECISION SO HIS CONSENT IS QUESTIONAL ENOUGH TO CALL IT RAPE BUT YOU SEEM YOUNG IF YOU'RE REACTING LIKE THIS

You have the right to delete this or not. I suggest you not too. It shows how unreasonable the haters are. You are speaking from opinions and opinions can’t be facts. You are not speaking facts of the story or the situation. The ones I seen “downplaying” JK is the ones talking about the future him. The ones that like him now acknowledges him as a toxic red flag. I don’t see anyone really downplaying for how he looks. However, many haters have JK worse than what he is. They overexaggerate his actions to be worse than what he is.

Toilet is a hater and he gets the story confused a lot. I think you seem mature to work things out. You wanted to compromise. That is a sign of maturity. Your comment to me were taking responsibility and being mature. I disagree with Toilet. Who is young himself. The pot calling the kettle black.


My first time:
We are saying it is not rape but SA and abusive. We are not defending him. We are not excusing him. We are carefully reading the story. “

My second time: There is no rape but SA and abuse.

I make it clear about seeing the SA.
Dan isn’t threatened and coercion through the whole first time.
He told him to leave twice. He said “ if you waste my time like that last little bitch. Don’t expect to be sent home safe and sound.” 27/50
Dan consented to the threatened which is rape by definition if you want to interpret that. IF ANYTHING Happened.
But we get to 30/50. If even this is too much for you, then just get the fuck out.
JK again tells him to leave. We see Dan choose to be there because of the money “ Right. I am the one who said I wanted 5 grand. I guess I just need to bite the bullet.”
Dan consented after he was given a choice to leave.
He didn’t do because he was scared. He didn’t do because he was threatened or afraid of being hit.
Which seems empty, eh?

42/ 50. Dan- Please just .. put it in now. JK let him prepared himself than took over.

47/50. He said stop. Don’t
48/50. He gets another threat and forced to a pillow.
I don’t want to keep writing garage.

Chapter 4

Dan doesn’t talk much at first but JK does. Jk tells him you tell me to just put it in, and then clenched up so tight I can’t even do it.

He slammed it in. Dan hasn’t said anything. He had many times to say something or say he was a virgin.

12/55 Hey?
13/55 Are you crying? Over that? I barely even put it in!
Look at his face. Why would he be concerned??
Dan says no that’s no not why… you just startled me.
Dan could had said so many other things and JK when noticed the tightness could tried to get Dan to relax again. Or realize Dan lied to him and he had no experience. JK hurt him and he was lied too. He should had different actions. ( he is not saying no to sex here. He is answering s question).

Jk - you are not going to stay whining again, are you?
Dan - No, I can do it. (A no he will not whine and he can have sex with JK.).

Dan says no. 23/55
Jk stops. He asked if how many men he had. Dan lied to him. He thinks he is with someone with experience.

Dan no not’s that’s… it’s not like that. ( some no’s are to questions and chapter 2 we learn he is a virgin but he tells JK he had experience which makes JK be rough on when he would had been slow on him.)

31/55. Dan - please a little gentler…
It is not a stop or I don’t want to. He is asking for JK to be gentler. He does say no but the major of them is to questions. Only 2? Or saying no to stop JK. He does not repeatedly saying no to stop JK as you kind of incite in your op.

…. It has rape elements but the next scene or line changes it. It is only rape if anyone is cherry picking lines and adding Dan’s feelings. Dan doesn’t voice his feelings to JK. We see them. There are threats but Dan isn’t really forced and threatened into this. One of those times. He was told to go home right after for the money. If you really take the definition you have and compare to the story. It is not rape. It is, if you cherry picked and not look at what happens next or the whole story.

I don’t have TikTok or discord. This isn’t TikTok or discord. But some people has called him hot. I wouldn’t say wished for character development is white washing his actions as the haters are falsely claiming. At least he will get character development. Maybe one day the haters will.
Thank you for being honest and respectful. I wished more people were like you. If you want to see their first time as rape. You can. I am not forcing this on you or anyone. I can tell so far you are not forcing me to see rape. That is the real issue happening here. The haters are forcing people to see rape instead of being respectful.

You're very mature tbh, and I do admit maybe my first message was a bit bold lol. You really put reason into it and it's just I never read the entire story so idk if Dan liked it after and stuff. Anyway, yeah I'll be more respectful after this post to things.