I am also like that, I'm always overthinking what I do and say. I can email, write, or do work related things fine. But, when it comes to socializing I always have to be in a group because I feel to awkward talking one-on-one. I feel really bad, there are some guys I think would be really cool friends. But, when it comes to action and making friends whom are boys, I always seem to mess up at a critical point, say something weird, and end up avoiding them for as long as I can.
I'm like that too. I feel so bad for avoiding them in such obvious way ( ￣△￣||)
i have worst. if i hear someone like me tough it's from other people mouth and don't know it's true or false, instincly i make a distant. i don't know why when people like me in romance way, it make me feel wrong. fortunately ( or it seem unfortunately) i never falling in love in my 22 years life.
sometimes i think i'm cruel person to avoid them when they don't make a mistake.
I'm like that too, getting weirdly concious around boys. I'm 22, almost 23, I've never fell in love with anyone, I'm not a really social person and yet, this year I decided to move to England to be a french professor assistant and for a week now I have been living in a flat with a roomate who happens to be a man.
So I don't know about changing this part of yourself, I have no idea how it will evolve with my roomate, if I will end up being comfortable around him or not, but... things happen. You have to give yourself some time and before you know it you will be giving yourself a kick in the ass in order to move on a little.
(I don't know if that make sense... above all that, I have move to England without having a good English at all... I'm not sure I'm going to survive this stressfull year...).
It's different for some people. For me, I'm totally fine. Same with people I've been rejected by (granted, I've only confessed once). It's over, you both know it's not going to happen, so just move on. Easier said than done for some people. In my case it's pretty easy. :P
Same here for me! Though i communicate just fine when i am with my close friends but when it comes to others especially guys i am hopeless. Waaaah! Is there some way to change this part of me?
Waaaah true! I always end up regretting it. Thinking that i shouldve done this and that. Ughhhh i am such an awkward person. ┗( T﹏T )┛
Uwaaah! Thats what ive been doing this whole time! Though deep inside i wanted to change dat part of me huhuhu its kinda frustrating.
Omg good luck with you and your roomate. That must be kinda tough.
Yeah, time is probably the answer. Though i wonder when that time will come hahahah.
Whenever a guy confess to me i get really awkward (⊙…⊙)around him and i unconsciously avoid him at all cost. Sometimes i think i am being sooo rude with him. Though that was unintentional, since i was only feeling nervous and awkward during that time thats why. Also, i am never good in dealing with guys in person. I just get really conscious and awkward around them (that's why i never had any close "straight" ε=ε=(ノ≧∇≦)ノ guy friends) i think i'm really weird. Tell me i am not the only one whos like this!!! ヽ(`Д´)ﾉ i want to change this part of me. Heeeeelp!