100% agree but she was afraid of raising a child with the lifestyle she lived in. And she believed that if they found out they would make her get rid of it or have it live a life she didn’t want for her kid.
I could agree but she didn’t know the future. She has an assumption which could have been proven wrong. He could have wholeheartedly accepted the child and Even become a better husband for her. Now if the relationship continue I have a feeling that that sort of resentment will affect the situation on the husband part, I mean he basically missed a that child’s life happening
I kind of get it. She suffered abuse from her family before marriage and then from her in-laws. I don't think the ML was the worst, but he was not a good contract partner either in that he never really considered how she was doing and where she came from. To me it's not strange that she felt couldn't trust him. Did she even know to what extent he was ignorant? I would have felt suspicious of everyone in her situation, people act strangely when they live in fear. First she was afraid of being forced to abort or give up her child, or being accused of being pregnant by someone else and now I think she's worried about custody?
However, I think at some point in this story, the FL denying that he is the father is really unfair to the son, especially when he begged her for forgiveness. She didn't have to take him back but she could let her son get to know his father, as well as get help with education, finances etc that will benefit him. I would definitely look into retroactive child support if I was her hehe
I feel like she made a quick judgment on the matter which effected the whole life of that child. The child shouldn’t be affected by the parents relationship. She didn’t show interest on changing the relationship either which leads to her deciding on her own that she should leave and have his child. I understand that trauma could have lead to her making such a decision but she also decided to marry him too so she should think of the consequences that both are parents to the child. Over all my situation is about her not respecting the child father right to know if there is a child out there that is his.
I see your point. I have mixed feelings about it in the beginning. If there was a risk someone would take my child away from me I'd be very hesitant too, I would have seen it as a safety issue. Especially when she is pregnant but afterwards too. We know now that it would have been ok, but in other situations women may have very legitimate reasons to fear the involvement of the father or his family.
But regardless I agree there's many points in the story where she could have reflected more on the situation, on what type of person he actually is and what would be best for her son, rather than acting on her emotions.
When I went back to read safety and custody concerns didn't seem to be the reason though. So yeah nevermind
Listen in the end she was married to the main lead. How can she just leave with HIS CHILD and then never admit it?? I get she suffered. In the end they both did but come on that man deserves to be happy with his son and enjoy the little moments but no she decided to take it away because she didn’t wanna talk about it with him. Which is some way is her fault and another way it’s his fault for not having that kinda relationship.