i love him

u are actually weird...

so if this were to happen too u in real life, u would difinitely get all giddy????? wowwwww

Not definitely. Not at all, really. Many people who enjoy manga like this wouldn't like it if shit like this happened to them in real life. It's fictional, and what we might like in our fantasies or in make-believe stories, is usually entirely different to what we'd want in real life.

Also, what? Even if this person would like that in real life, you'd rather be rude to them? If someone ever actually wanted an unhealthy relationship with someone, where they're the one getting abused in some sort of way, you're knee jerk reaction is to be a piece of shit to them when, most likely, some very wrong things have happened to them in life to make them that way? More than likely, they're a victim of something. Says a lot about you that you'd bully someone for wanting something like that, instead of showing any sort of concern or worry.

You are actually a rude person...

how? Im sorry for calling a person weird WHO IS ROMANTICIZING RAPE/STALKING

Most likely, if that person actually wants that in real life to happen to them, they're a victim of experiencing something like that in their own actual life. And your first instinct was to call them a name instead of showing any type of concern or worry about why they would want something like that.

If they don't like that in real life, it's fictional. Which is the more likely scenario. Still, people who like this behavior in fictional characters or like to read stories of romanticized rape, in obviously unrealistic stories, tend to be SA/rape survivors themselves. It's a way of coping. So you called a potential SA victim weird. Even if they're not, it's perfectly normal for people to have their kinks and fetishes as long as no one truly gets hurt. Some people even practice CNC (Consensus non-consent, which is rape roleplay). It's not that you're not allowed to call someone weird, free speech and all, but it shows you're a douchebag, nonetheless. Says more about you than anything. Calling someone weird isn't even that big an insult, but it's about the choosing to name call someone instead of moving on with your life that tells a lot. You just HAD to let your opinion on them being weird be known. Couldn't resist, hmm? That's just dumb.

Consensual non-consent**

because its coping mechanism doesnt mean its healthy people like that should get acc help. Most of time cnc is practiced by ppl who arent even rape victims nor sa victims. As some one who was sa when i was a child i am telling you that not some random person who hasnt experienced sa or any type of that

I never said it was healthy. It's not. Most coping mechanisms aren't. And I'm sorry you're a SA victim, but I know and am friends with other SA victims (as well as being one myself), as well as two others who are CSA (child sexual assault) victims like you. All of which, are people who have proudly proclaimed their likes for stories like these because of how therapeutic it can be for them to write/draw/read this type of fictional material. It's almost a way of getting back the control they feel they've lost, for them. Maybe it's not like that for every SA victim (I'm not even someone who cares for stories like this, I just know people who do). Though, what you said still kind of proves my point. People like this need help, but you'd rather call them weird then show concern. And, you of all people should at least somewhat understand if what you say about being an SA victim is true. It's just rude, especially when you can easily ignore it.

calling someone weird who is weird isn't rude but going around calling ppl weirdos for no reason is rude and immature

That's not an objective fact, that's a debatable opinion. It's a matter of a persons point of view. You can't just argue your point by surmising an opinion (thinking someone is weird) as facts ('that person is undeniably a weirdo'). Simply because you believe your opinion to be true to yourself, doesn't mean you're not an asshole if the notion is said in a derogatory manner. And why is it so important for this person to know you think they're weird? Rude. Your behavior was simply rude. Objectively so, considering how you delivered your opinion. Just move on dude, it's not a big deal. You conducted yourself offensively, so what? You'll either take something from this and refrain from name calling the next time you [feel like it/feel like the person deserves it], or you won't, and that's perfectly within your rights to do so. No one's gonna stop you, just don't be surprised if someone calls you out on your shit.

The only way in which you could effectively argue against my point, is it could also be a matter of [prospective/opinion] on whether or not your conjecture was indeed rude. The opinion itself may not be objectively rude, and whether or not it is rude, is disputable and arguable. However, I'm not calling your opinion rude. It is your behavior in that comment where you give said opinion, that I'm saying was objectively rude in nature. You framed it in a name-calling demeanor. The definition of name-calling is, "abusive language or insults," and with weird or weirdo widely having negative connotations connected to it, depending on how it's used, is usually accepted as an insult. And it's unlikely your intent with calling the person weird was at all in an encouraging, 'you're unique, and that's good!' way, especially if we take into consideration your second comment in reply to me. It shows your obvious contempt for this person who made the topic. Therefore, infers your intent with using the term 'weird' in a derogatory fashion.

I can argue this all day, as it's topics in similar relation to this in which I am passionate about and could go on forever talking about and debating with someone. My claim to you being a rude person was genuinely an opinion, I'll give you that. And I honestly don't believe that you, as an individual, are rude. But objectively, you did behave ill-mannered, uncivil, and tactless with your comment.

Look, all I'm saying, is you could've made a more concise and succinct comment that's not derogatory and accusing in nature, or not commented at all and I wouldn't be calling you rude, or calling out your distasteful manners. Believe what you want, though, I'm not really here to change minds, just to point out flaws in arguments and provide a more nuanced prospective. I don't really mind if you go on believing you weren't rude with the name-calling and delivery of your opinion, that you're [perfectly in the right/correct] about this topic, or even if you believe this person is undisputably and factually 'weird' by definition. Just know, that if you continue to reply, argue, and debate my own comments, I will 100% return it and combat your's in return. If you make good points, I'll concede to them. If you don't want that though, I do recommend leaving it at this. There is no winning or losing here, simply conversation and differing beliefs and views. I won't look at you not replying as 'giving up'. I'm giving you an out from my long, rigorous, and maybe arduous to read replies that will undoubtedly stay consistent with this length.

Or, we can even come to a truce, let bygones be bygones, and agree to disagree. If this resumes, let it stay the relatively civil back-and-forth debate it has been, because I'm more than happy to continue this. As long as you don't mind my walls of text.

do u have that much free time to write this shit lol

Not really, college is fucking brutal, but I find time. Especially since I like talking about these types of things. The nuances of the human brain and how each individual's works differently to one another fascinates me. This topic tends to fall into that category.

faggot