Beware the Villainess is great. Also, the One Within the Villainess is REALLY interesting. Both these ladies beat some ass.
Besides the really popular ones I like these two as Leads
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/second_life_of_a_trash_princess/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/the_invicible_princess_is_bored_again_today/
not sure but I think maybe this fits too
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/they_say_i_was_born_a_king_s_daughter/
its not reincarnation but somehow I think you could like it
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/light_shadow/
Any recommendations of isekai/reincarnation that the protagonist isn't fucking annoying or a Mary sue. And yes I consider resetting lady annoying. I need something that the protag is ready to beat someone ass.