Idt its that she doesn't want to have sex, its that she doesn't want to have sex with him at all bc she finds the thought gross. Imagine your partner saying so. Women only define a sexual situation as gross when its initiated by someone they don't want to physically be close to and not wanting to be close to your romantic partner is in fact wierd. Sex is a big part of a romantic relationship. You may not want to fo it once or twice in a while for reasons or simply bc you don't feel like it but denying sex in a romantic relationship is a problem, it is also used as a means of abuse. Even asexual people have sex with their partners unless they are dating another asexual person bc they know intimacy is important for the other person. In some places not having consensual sex for over a period of year or so is as good as physical separation when it comes to divorce.
The problem is not that she didn't want to have sex simply bc she was saving herself, she keeps saying his advances are gross but she also says she loves him. Imo she should have dumped him long before he cheated if she didn't like the sexual aspect of the relationship. Sexual compatibility is a thing. And it can make or break relationships, its as important as wanting to to have children or not. It should be discussed upfront.
Sry I'm only at chapter 3 but wtf??? Is the ML actually implying that *she's* in the wrong for not wanting sex from her ex bf before she was ready??
Like, atleast say that the ex was wrong to resort to cheating instead of either talking or breaking up?
I already don't like this ML, so if FL hadn't had sex with you, you would've done the same as her ex?????
Also, same thoughts as that one comment up there ^^ true, I don't agree with ML's bullshiz theory that FL never loved her ex just because she wouldn't have sex with him.