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It's not that bad.
You just have to find your zen.
For example food:
When our little girl started prefering food instead of breastfeeding at 6 months (which is way too soon) I was a total mess, because everyone was like "She needs milk, you have to make her BF, don't give her food,...".
She is allergic to "animal" milk, so there is no tasty formula, which stressed me to max level and I was producing gallons of milk.
After some time, I realised, she is just fine, so I do not need to worry and stress out.
She is eating healthy diet, growing fast, just needs supplements with calcium and omega 3&6.
At this point, seeing how toshimaru(baby) acts, I am certain I don’t want to have a baby. It made my blood boil but at the same time it made me sad because this happens to mothers. Some mothers experience PTSD and their partners aren’t around to support them mentally, physically, and emotionally. Stay strong to all moms out there(๑•ㅂ•)و✧