Not everyone knows about how Vaseline isn’t a safe lube because it’s used so much in media, let’s be honest there’s 18- on here, who’re experimenting, so it’s not exactly aimed at kids in a bad way. As long as you’re safe, you’ll have a good experience!! Schools don’t teach enough about which lubes are safe or which ones aren’t!!!! (〜 ̄△ ̄)〜
i say the things i do like above because i really wish someone had given me accurate information about sex when i was younger. not to mention that people say "remember kids, x" as a general statement rather than directing it at ACTUAL children all the time. i think you might be taking the title too literally.
i have never in my entire life heard of a single sex ed teacher covering anything about gay sex or lube. ever. so saying "leave it to the sex ed teachers" is entirely redundant.
it may be unrealistic, but i hope some teenager sees my comments or posts and remembers the information when the time comes that they need it. <3
don't use vaseline as lube. use a lubricant that's specifically designated for sex!