my secuality

2qrass4dis July 24, 2021 8:06 am

ok so what do yall think? im a girl and ive always been sexually attracted to women but ive been romantically attracted to very very few women in real life like one or two. I am attracted to very few real life men romantically but almost never sexually. But I am verryy attracted to fictional men both sexually and romantically, however im not romantically attracted to most fictional women (might be cause the characters arent well written/ my style)

Responses
    Korria July 24, 2021 8:08 am

    Homosexual bi romantic maybe? I don’t know exactly what you’re asking.

    UndecidedFate July 24, 2021 8:11 am

    Honestly, you can just go with the flow right? You don’t need to label yourself, yeah? I got no advice or answer, but you shouldn’t be worried about it, if you find someone you like, then go with them and things lead to another. It’s also nice to not overthink, hopefully you can lose the overthinking since it’s kindof stressful

    clowns July 24, 2021 8:11 am

    You’re bi! Wether you’re sexually or emotionally attracted to a gender doesn’t matter since you’re attracted to them nonetheless. Also don’t worry about only finding a very small few women attractive. Even if it’s a small percentage you still find women attractive. However some may debate on wether it’s attraction or finding them pretty, but that’s up for you to decided.

    UndecidedFate July 24, 2021 8:12 am
    Honestly, you can just go with the flow right? You don’t need to label yourself, yeah? I got no advice or answer, but you shouldn’t be worried about it, if you find someone you like, then go with them and t... UndecidedFate

    If you find someone you like (that’s a loving being)* lol

    clowns July 24, 2021 8:12 am

    And what I mean on the last bit is that there’s a difference between “wow they’re good looking” to “I wanna date/have sex with them”

    UndecidedFate July 24, 2021 8:13 am
    If you find someone you like (that’s a loving being)* lol UndecidedFate

    Living*

    drops July 24, 2021 8:14 am

    ah, im actually in the same boat as you just less attracted to irl men as well as irl women. its not as though im aromantic, but its hard. all i can say is is that its a bumpy road from here and you dont need to have a complete grasp on your sexuality yet. for now i am bisexual because i simply dont know whether my attraction to women is legit or not, i just know i love women a lot but maybe not in a romantic light. i used to be a lesbian but then i realized my gender and since being a guy its been a LOT easier to come to realizations about being attracted to men. theres a lot of shame in it for me especially being afab and also the fetishization and stuff BUT ANYWAYS, i hope this helped somehow! thinking about both gender and sexuality is helpful sometimes but also just being you without worrying about it too much is also a great option.

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    2qrass4dis July 24, 2021 8:16 am
    Honestly, you can just go with the flow right? You don’t need to label yourself, yeah? I got no advice or answer, but you shouldn’t be worried about it, if you find someone you like, then go with them and t... UndecidedFate

    yea thats what i do just go with tue flow but i was kinda curious what others would think

    UndecidedFate July 24, 2021 8:22 am
    yea thats what i do just go with tue flow but i was kinda curious what others would think 2qrass4dis

    Makes sense :)