I completely understand and actually agree with you as well. I believe the “problem” is that in a relationship after some point you hope there’s no secrets. I feel as though they had reached this point, or at least Hyuk thought thought they had.
I think everyone hopes that there significant other would lay all their cards on the table. That they even want to share the tiniest mundane things. Being vulnerable and transparent in relationships is pretty important otherwise I feel that it can lead to doubt, loss of trust, and seclusion.
But that’s just my thoughts. I shud also mention I’m a 21 yr old that’s never dated (lmao), just been a spectator of friends and family. I really do agree with you though!
well kind of...? ima put my 2 cents in sorry lol. I do agree that he hasn't done anything terrible but he still is kind of iffy, first of all he was still sleeping around while pursuing hyuk (nothing wrong with that since they weren't official yet) but imagine you're talking to someone and trying to get to know them seriously romantically and find out their sleeping around, like you guys aren't together yet but it makes the person look in-genuine (is that a word lol?). second of all he puts a front, he even told hyuk he hates the club scene.... like you literally used to sleep around and still go to the club sometimes to hang w/ your friends. its not like hes purposefully lying to hyuk but he's definitely not saying the whole truth intentionally bc he wants to seem a type of way in front of hyuk and doesn't want him thinking badly of him (not outright lying but still wrong). lets not get started on the tutor thing, and yes he did hide it from hyuk (he knew it was him), that was rlly wrong of him. him and hyuk had a bad past, he should have talked about it as soon as he knew, this isn't something like his past of sleeping around kind of thing, its definitely more important. bc he's keeping the truth about what he did to hyuk in the past and who he is. and lastly lets not get started on how their relationship started out when hyuk was his patient. he defitenly took advantage of how naive hyuk was and also kept him coming to the appointments, if you remember he lied to hyuk to keep hyuk coming back to the clinic. abusing his authority. and kind of molding hyuk into the partner he wanted since hyuk was super inexperience in the gay/buttplay thing. I honestly dont care that he's morally dubious and if he's an asshole or not cuz I do still like him with hyuk and I would forgive him (I mean its just fiction, im not gonna hate him that much lol). so yea thats why ppl are mad at him and why some ppl dont like him bc he did wrong hyuk and im not gonna excuse it even if I like him (this isn't directed towards you and sorry for the long ass paragraph lol)
Well that's just nitpicking every little thing that would looks "wrong", the whole putting up a front isn't necessarily a bad thing, anyone would want to show their best self infront of the person you are interesting in, of course he wouldn't tell him abt sleeping around that just ruins his image before they have a stable relationship, he wasnt treating hyuk badly and hasn't forced him to do anything against his will
(and dw abt it, I just needed to make my statement since alot of ppls comments pissed me off)
I'm yet to see Dr han do anything wrong, I'm not blaming hyuk either but everyone is saying that Dr han deserves to suffer and I'm confused why? He played around before dating hyuk and stopped when they got together, even with all the pestering he got from the redhead guy, he really didn't need to tell him abd hyuk didn't ask abt it either, his comunication with hyuk is really sweet too.
if you tell me about their whole past tutor student thing, it was never shown what happened afterwards, it could be a misunderstanding for all we know, and if ask me why he didn't tell hyuk about it, honestly it's not like hyuk remembered him either, he didn't look at different for him not to recognize or at least be suspicious of it.
But seriously if I'm missing something do tell me, I just don't understand why everyone is hating on Dr han