Now as a follow up to my last comment. (

I feel like this: if you're someone who casually has sex with different partners often without concern of catching something, dating an ex-prostitute shouldn't be too hard

Personally (as a girl) if I loved someone, and I mean truly loved them (something I don't see much of this day and age) I wouldn't have to much problem with it. Really I wouldnt care much at all if I caught something from someone I would spend the rest of my life with. It would be out of concern for the possibility of having children in the future (transmitting any disease) that I would want to take any precautionary measures. Thank God for modern science, there are ways to help in that area. So yea. Hopefully that helps a little bit.

You are making a very good point it really is based on the context, but the story set up is about ex-prostitute with a friend (who may have some experience, but not as much), and so I really think about how would I feel about being in the shoe's of the seme,and I would feel betrayed, but then again it's based on how I feel about sex in the first place, hence the importance of context.

I'm a very meticulous person who has to remind herself constantly to discuss her emotions than to let them guide her, I believe communication is key, but it is so difficult to do. And so my point is that as humans we shouldn't let ourselves be guided by love, so thank you for you feedback; some sexual diseases can be cured except for some so be careful, condoms are always option. Love shouldn't blind you

So my point is a lot of things have to be consider before jumping into a relationship.

Yup I totally see where you're coming from. I guess it depends on the person and what they feel. Something viewed as a totally irrational and impulsive decision by one person may be another's well thought out and accepted choice

Dontcha just love the discussions spurring from yaoi?

I feel like nowadays for most people, it's sex over love. For some reason they can't love someone hard without fckn them hard...cuz in the long run most want fresh meat. I wonder how it feels to know that sex with the one you love isn't as good as with the twenty other people you've fckd lol. Anyway, I usually skip the sex scenes. So as someone who finds pure lust very disgusting, lol reading/watching stuff featuring chars who enjoy sleeping around always makes me cringe, especially when those do not feature safe sex or possible consequences. Plus, it won't be easy to trust those types just as it is difficult for them to break the habit.
I'm glad to see there are still others who think and feel with their heart, not their nether region hahaha.

And how come no one is commenting on how the uke has like a B cup going on and curvy as hell? Classic chick with dick.

"I wonder how it feels to know that sex with the one you love isn't as good as with the twenty other people you've fckd lol" THIS HERE!!!! Amen!!!!

"featuring chars who enjoy sleeping around always makes me cringe, especially when those do not feature safe sex or possible consequences. Plus, it won't be easy to trust those types just as it is difficult for them to break the habit." THIS TOO!!!


Sometimes it is really hard to put into words what I'm thinking, but you've have been able to sum it up for me, those points up there are just hit the nail on the wall, I want to have relationship with both attraction and love, but if I have something to compare then that mindset would get in the way of my relationship. For example like it really bothered me when the UKE refers to his sex life like MUST YOU RUB IT in the SEME'S face.

And yeah, I really do love curves on ukes, even though it isn't all that common in men, and yes he has moobies, hahahaha, I guess the author wanted the seme to have more meat to suck on, hahahaha.

Honestly, "sex before love" makes it hard for people to believe in love, and when you do believe in love people just shoot you down, they give you a hard time for thinking like child. It's like a double edge sword like you want me to respect you for having a sex life, but you won't respect me for trying to believe that I can love someone without having to sleep with him or her.

And yes, yaoi, is just a good discussion starter.

Amen to that. Curvy ukes are mmmmm. Its part of what makes fluffy yaoi trump bara.

And I totally agree with you. Sometimes I feel afraid that I will die alone because I want love before sex. Like seriously, it's like sex right away is encouraged and if you havent fucked within or after the first 3 dates then youre useless. ╥﹏╥

Yes, I wouldn't mind.

You know we are in a modern day society right? There's no ambiguity if the person caught a disease or not. You can simply ask the person to abstain from sex and to take tests before you have sex with them. It's seriously common sense. Or I don't know...research???

I'm kind of tired of people saying "oh they might have a disease" as an excuse to degrade those in the sex industry. You don't have to be in the sex industry to have multiple sex partners, so why are you so caught up in that. There are stories of men having sex with more than 20 women in a year, what difference does that make with those in the sex industry? You just need ONE person to catch a disease, you could be a virgin and the person you had sex with had sex with just ONE person and you can still get a disease. Those in the sex industry would be more likely to wear condoms than you are to do so with your boyfriend, how funny is that. Even porn actors have to go for tests if they are going to have sex with a fellow actor without a condom.

It's obvious these distaste is more to do with the fact that you have some childish possessiveness over your partner. You aren't any different from those sexist men who says that a girl's pussy is loose just because they had boyfriends before them. You don't get to own a person and their past or their choices. You just have to choose how to control your own emotions and how you react to someone. Don't be with that person, fine. But who are you to act as though you are better than someone just because you would choose a different path? You are WORSE because of the fact that you think you are better just because you don't do something like that. How about ask this question to the public.

How would you feel if you had to go out with someone like me(Isa-chan) who thinks I'm better than people simply because I'm not in the sex industry?

Let's do that.

My answer: Won't even get close to you with a ten foot pole.

The uke was rubbing in the seme's face?? The seme was practically going to rape him on a misunderstanding and because he wouldn't listen. The seme was the one who BROUGHT IT UP. The uke was simply responding to that. And rubbing in his face?? Why are you making it sound intentional, as though the person is PURPOSELY doing it. Do not put your emotions to an innocent talk just because YOU are affected by it so. Don't try to manipulate the scene to make it sound like the uke is an ass when he has been A) Nothing but faithful B)Quit the moment he got the chance to be with the seme C) Did not even once think of cheating or of other men when they were together.

The sex service is a job. Just because you do not like it, doesn't mean others should feel the same.Seriously, you don't own the person, you can't have a say on what you want the person to be. Unleashing your venom on the uke for simply taking a job that he likes? Seriously? Is he forcing them to have sex with him? Is he impeaching somebody's rights? Or is he simply doing what he wants to do without harming anyone? Wow, such a horrible person. He fell in love with the seme years ago, the seme is some weird fetishist guy who uses his own semen and now yours to paint. Oh how horrible, you had sex with other men before that may be more skilled and experienced but you never spare them a thought and chose to be with your seme. How horrible of you.

And if you don't like it, then fine, why must you care if someone else would like it or not? Why are you trying to place people into the seme's position? We are all different, you can't accept it and others can. Asking others to put themselves in the seme's position proves zilch.