i feel like some people should know this

Fromis9 July 22, 2021 3:55 am

All this manhwa imprints on the minds of mentally vulnerable people is that in the name of love, it's okay if you go through horrible things and your mental health declines because of the actions of a person who continually denies you and sees you nothing more than an object to satisfy their pleasure with, as long as you believe they can change but at the expense of your welfare.

I have said this so many times but DO NOT BE AFRAID TO LEAVE! You do not have to carry the burden of changing these people. Indeed, there are people who were shaped by their circumstances and there are who chose to be the way they are but if there's one thing that is always going to be true, it's that their past doesn't give them the excuse to inflict pain on others. Yes, I acknowledge Yahwi's past but the choices he made as an adult were the choices he made as an independent person. Therefore, considering what happened to him and Jooin, there is no one he can blame but himself. His past doesn't amount to anything that can dismiss the mistakes he did but to merely explain why he is like that. And that's not invalidating his TRAUMA. It's not the same!

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