You can be in a solid marriage and be against this you can trust your partner and be against this COMMUNICATION is key if it’s not previously approved don’t just assume
every relationship is different. some people like the spontaneity and randomness, some don't. I wish people stop with the wide stroke of consent. Consent means different things to different people and should be viewed case by case.
But in order for your partner to know you like spontaneous endeavors you have to COMMUNICATE that meaning in some way shape or form it was previously brought up and confirmed in some way or capacity. All the commenters are saying is that if she woke up and was upset then it would be sexual assault he’s playing a very dangerous game… but we all know she’ll be fine with it so it’s not that serious but technically speaking he did just sexually assault her so I’m not annoyed by their comments because like you said it’s situational
Not always the case. As I said, every relationship is different. For this couple specifically, Lucia has already made it abundantly clear to him that she is okay with whatever he gives to her sexually. She has made spoken and spoken ques to this point. Which is why a surprise sexy time was literally no shock to me. You can have these kinds of non verbal communications before sex and without asking. As I said, it's a case by case thing and should not be broad stroked. So no he didn't sexually assault her because their sexual dynamic was actually made clear when they got married. Ya'll just weren't paying attention to it. We as readers should already know before that she wouldn't be upset because you should have been paying attention to the story. Just like Hue knows she wouldn't be upset cause he pays attention to her. He actually knows his boundaries with her, at least when it comes to the bedroom. I am a little annoyed because it's out of context.
Again, I said if you know each other well, then you know if your partner would be against this. So the message still stands. If you don’t like this then your partner in marriage would know this. Unless you guys don’t communicate. But that begs the question of why you’re married anyway
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Finally! someone was paying attention
Man if you guys aren’t comfortable with your significant others, just say so. Anyone in a solid, committed marriage with a great sex life is not going to be against this. Typically, if you trust one another and know each other well, you know if your partner is going to be fine with this or not