This is exactly how I feel omg
But he doesn't know he has a trauma.
yeah but even still... hearing "nobody loves me" from your bf while he's crying and talking about how he's scared that he's gonna be left alone again/you won't like him anymore SHOULD have been big red flags that gunwoo is scared to do it w/jiho and needed to be comforted, but instead jiho just walked away wtf
the LEAST that jiho could've done, even not knowing that gunwoo has trauma, is comfort and rid gunwoo of his fear that jiho's gonna leave him for not sleeping with him/not doing exactly as jiho wanted. or even just hang out w/gunwoo idk. but when jiho left, he pretty much reaffirmed gunwoo's fears of being left behind when he doesn't fulfill others' expectations. all in all I feel like jiho really took the worst and most immature course of actions that he could've taken in that scenario.
I mean, I definitely agree. But we saw how immature he was from the start so assuming he has the brain capacity of a flower pot, I can't be mad at him. I mean, I have several sexual traumas and am basically asexual, so I'm 100% on Gunwoo's side. My heart broke when he cried and said what he said. I want to teleport into the manga and murder his mum.
after seeing someone crying from trauma saying nobody has ever loved them and they were scared of being abandoned, instead of comforting them you abandon them??? he’s making me so frustrated i feel so bad for gunwoo