Again, that's fine for your personal preference. You and your hubby like it, and that's great for you. If I was asleep and woke me up to my bf touching and doing stuff, I would not be ok with it. It would not feel good to me. It's an alarming moment for some ppl to wake up that way, and I'm one of them.
But the problem is when ppl that like it are with somebody who doesn't. It's not always respected. It's also wrong to assume that just b/c a girl gets wet or a dude has a hard-on, it means that he/she is reacting positively to it. Sensitivity is not an open invitation. I personally know somebody that had a reaction when somebody tried to take advantage of her, and she felt horrible and dirty afterwards b/c of it. She was told that since she had that reaction, she must have wanted it and just playing hard to get. That is NOT ok, and that is a load of crap.
By the way, I'm sorry for going off on your thread the way I have. This just happens to be a sensitive topic to me. I'm done now though! Wishing ya'll happy reading!!
So we just going pass over the fact that this is rape? Mkay.