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The power of love
Yes, she haven't considered his own feelings, but she did say what she wanted is to make him happy. That's her main goal. Besides, it's not like she's actually forcing him either way. She gave him a choice. It wouldn't be a loss to either of them if they don't get together (which is unlikely), but it'd be a missed opportunity.
TBH I feel like she is pretty insensitive here. I get that she loves his character and wants to save him but like he is very clearly not over his crush and she is perfectly positioning herself to be spiked into being a rebound fling at best and a nuisance at worst. Meanwhile he is so wrapped up in a relationship that never even happened that he is totally refusing to let himself be happy and move on with someone who whole heartedly adores him and is just logistically a great option for him. I sense this is going to be an absolutely massive headache.