agreed. sometimes ill be in love with a bl but when the uke says "no, stop." and the seme's like "i can't hold back" or smthn it puts me off. sure theyre in a relationship but your mans said no you gotta respect that.
I just hate the classic “trust me, I will be gentle” but then when the uke actually tells the same to be gentle, he’s all like “I can’t stop now lol”. And pretty much all those bls where the uke keeps telling the seme to stop? Sometimes I even wonder if he’s actually enjoying it. I prefer it when they’re both visibly enjoying it, not just the seme. It can get really hard to read.
i dont read bl much but rape is very common in most of the popular ones :(, ofc its wrong in any literature (unless its cnc, and i dont mean some ''ur saying no but ur body says yes'' bs.) but its gross how common it is.
I agree so much. Semes literally don't understand the word STOP
Same, the seme should respect the uke. :(
YES I AGREE! They always say stuff like "How can you say no when you're this wet". Of course any human is going to react like that if you're doing that to them. Just because someone is wet or moaning doesn't they're into it.
I literally hate whenever the seme ALWAYS tries to control the uke. They act like they own them smh.