People, always beware of others. Sometimes, the ones that seems the nicest are the scariest. Sometimes it is that person that extends their hands that actually will stab you in the back. Don't judge anyone by their covers. People doesn't change, they show their true colors. Been there and done that, now I am a person with trust issues. I'll die old with my cats. If you have people that you know so well like the back of your hand, (siblings, childhood friends, real best friend or family) make sure you never lose them, take care of them and be thankful, at this moment, you have you can say, you can rely your back on someone.
Just because some adults told you some shit doesn't mean they are correct. Adults are influenced by the toxic system they grew up in and are far more dogmatic about it than a child is. Adults who grew up in an environment where misogyny, homophobia, racism was more normalised will still endorse such practices. That doesn't mean those practices are correct.
So, no, you can't tell your flesh and blood. It makes no sense even biologically. That's now how humans work. If we did, you'd love your distant cousins more than you loved your friends.
Not to mention that it is morally indefensible that you should favour a biological child over a child who is not genetically related when both of them are equally dependent on you and recognise you as their parent. If you discriminate between your children based on their genetic relationship to you and subject either of them to neglect because of it, you are a child abuser and shouldn't be allowed to raise kids, period.
Just because some adults told you some shit doesn't mean they are correct. Adults are influenced by the toxic system they grew up in and are far more dogmatic about it than a child is. Adults who grew up in an environment where misogyny, homophobia, racism was more normalised will still endorse such practices. That doesn't mean those practices are correct.
So, no, you can't tell who your "flesh and blood" is. It makes no sense even biologically. That's now how humans work. If we did, you'd love your distant cousins more than you loved your friends.
Not to mention that it is morally indefensible that you should favour a biological child over a child who is not genetically related when both of them are equally dependent on you and recognise you as their parent. If you discriminate between your children based on their genetic relationship to you and subject either of them to neglect because of it, you are a child abuser and shouldn't be allowed to raise kids, period.
I kind of hate the father because he’s a bad father he only cares for the FL Even though the blonde one is also his daughter so he’s neglecting her