I NEED HELPP

Hol on- who or what are they going through?And who asks your bestie for that type of advice if you dont know,throw that person away,you dont need to feel guilty

Well to begin actions speak louder than words, they are way more effective. Just be there for him. Listen to his problems and try your best to reassure him that everything will be okay and that you're here to help, talk, and listen. :)

oh and also he really shouldn't make you feel bad if you are trying to help, that's kind of a dick move ngl.

As a friend you can lend an ear or give advice, but nothing you say will fix his problems. If possible make it clear that as his best friend you want what’s best for him but there’s a limit to what you can do. He needs either professional help or needs to work on self help. You’re a great best friend for trying to help and it’s not your fault that your limited in how much you are able to do!

they are going through a lot of family problems. they told me that they need me with them right now and they want me to sneak out with them and i honestly would but i don’t want to get into trouble. i tried to console them but they laughed it off and said they they knew it was okay. i don’t know wut else i can say to help him feel better

since he’s going through a lot of family problems we can’t really see eachother a lot so there’s not really a way i can show him that i’m there for him. i’m trying my best but it really hurts sometimes because i understand he’s going through things but he only texts me when he’s at his breaking point recently and it makes me feel bad. i’ll definitely try to see if there’s any other way to help. thank youu :)

he’s already getting professional help so it really makes me worry that he’s been feeling this way recently. and yes i understand that there’s a limit to wut i can do but it just hurts to see him this way and not be able to do anything about it. thanks for the advice :)