bruh what? he was literally abused emotionally and physically. this is the first time he’s in a healthy emotionally vulnerable relationship. he hasn’t even done anything wrong so far it’s only been the black haired guy torturing him bc he’s insecure ab the past. the black haired guy never even came out right and told min that he wanted to be in a serious relationship with him in the past so how was min supposed to ever see him as more than a fuck buddy.
So the uke never tortured the seme, too huh? Even when the uke already admitted it? It's not like the seme never tried to confess, it's because he was always cut off, like getting a new boyfriend. Seme's intentions were never vague, it's just that the uke always brushed it off at the right time then pulls him back in when he needs him. So no, uke's not innocent. Yes the seme purposefully manipulated the uke but he had the gall to admit everything at the right time.
you just contradicted yourself. you said he tried to tell him but never could. which is true. but again. TRIED. he never actually told him. he would literally just have sex w him. that’s it. min never “tortured” him on purpose.
Whenever he got the chance he would get cut off. Mustering up the guts to say it and finding the right time (like when the other party is supposed to be available) then just when you're about to, the person tells you, hey I have a boyfriend, would you still do it? He didn't want to say it when uke currently has a boyfriend. And him being cut off every time IS on purpose. Uke is fully aware of seme's feelings, his love and concern, and hating inflicting pain, yet still eggs on him, because he's taking advantage that seme can't let go of him. And you say it wasn't on purpose? No matter how damaged the uke was, it can't be said that the things he did wasn't on purpose.
Uke kept the cycle until seme got into a pit where he just couldn't say it anymore and assert his feelings. You make it seem like it was easy to confess but if in their situation seme wanted an opportunity where the uke possibly wouldn't reject him right away and give his offer a chance, but the uke never gave the opportunity. So their whole relationship became about manipulating each other.
Exactly. I get his trauma, but does that mean he's going to traumatize others now? And why does the responsibility of confession lies solely on the ml? Afterall, he tried so many times so maybe he's lost confidence now? It isn't that easy. But min has never tried to confess, but does min even love him? If he does then why not even try to confess once in all those years? Unless he never saw the ml as someone more than a f buddy or a convenient person or just something to fall back on every now n then? He would have seen him more than a f buddy if he'd really loved and cared for the ml, and that shouldn't depend on the ml confessing first.But he probably never even considered it. I don't understand what's the point? Did he really have feelings for the ml while he dated others while mistreating the ml?
Then, it's totally an understandable reaction of anxiety on the ML's part. Not right necessarily but that's that.
“Even though I treated you badly in the past” WHAT?! Omg if this story decides to turn into a “make Min suffer” story I’d fully support it. Like I understand that he’s struggling bc he isn’t being trusted, but like watching him play the victim card is driving me INSANE. I’m all for character growth, and I totally believe Min when he says he’s changed, but I’m having such a FUCKING HARD TIME ACCEPTING HIM like bruh I’m still so upset I don’t think I could ever sympathise with him