Unless you physically cannot push them away for instance if the person is bigger and stronger than u then Not rly - most of the time all u gotta do is reject them once and they don’t attempt again outta embarrassment unless their goal is to force you- so Yh it’s exaggerated for sure in bl and it’s frustrating asf e.e
But again if your horny then Your horny and then all u can think about is sex so maybe u can get carried away?! idk
In actual rape cases you will feel powerless but in normal “pushy” atmosphere like BL you are able to push them away just by showing genuine disgust and disapproval.
If the other person respects you then they will eventually stop if you tell them to stop. But if the person is stronger than you and tries to force you then yeah it is kinda hard. But in the moment some people get shocked and are confused atm so they can’t use their full strength to stop the other person.
And about the mood, no not really. If you really don’t want to then you would absolutely push them away, or would give in if you want to have sex too. at least this is for me. When I say no it’s definitely a no ┑(￣Д ￣)┍
Yeah see I've always been confused, do people really get so horny they lose all reason? I'm genuinely curious cause I've never done it/been in those kinds of situations
I mean you wouldn’t loose all reason completely but your thoughts would be a bit more clouded and would point more towards sex~ but to get to that point you’d have to be comfortable with the person in some kinda way yk? But that’s my perspective on it, it’s difficult to describe it exactly cuz it can be different for every person. This is just how it is for me
For the people that have had sex, I have a question:
Is it really hard to stop/push people away once you've started doing it/is in the mood?
Because BL charas always seem to get carried away doing it :/