Honestly I was lucky and me and my "ex" separated on really good terms (actually still loved each other) but I think that's why it was still so painful. So get some good crying in, sleep a bit, call up a friend and go out for some fun. And if you don't want to be around people just go try something new by yourself. Distractions can be so helpful as a cheering up method. Like I cut my hair the shortest it had ever been because my boyfriend loved long hair and to move on I wanted it short.
Ps- icecream is LITERALLY the best answer if all else fails
Got a new boyfriend asap ;)
im still not over him and its been 3 years
ive heard getting ya self a rebound bf works
Just be happy being single, learn to love yourself and perhaps come to terms that both of you weren't meant to be.. sorry if my approach to the situation seems cold but i'm just a realistic kinda person and not romanfic at all hehe..
rebound? no dude,find another move on start a new
These are all such good ideas! Thank you for helping me. :)
I love this response, this is what's helped me most too. I know I'm happier without him. I'm also doing a lot more things I care about than when we were together. Thank you, Jay.
Mine's been two years. I tried some rebound boyfriends. I actually didn't miss him until now, and know I don't really miss him. Not that I'd mind having him back, I'd like it in a way, but I like this a lot.
What brings it on for you?
I'm ready. I'd love to hear about ANY thing that helped you, or if you're still going through this.