You know, the point is uke doesn't see anything wrong with that, even that guy said that this is not right thing to do to the seme, but uke still doesn't see that. Each time when he will feel anxiety he will go to sleep around? Maybe some people like this way out of the situation, but for me it's just pathetic and without respect for themselves, the person they love and which love them back ╥﹏╥
Ah, well, its "not the best way" to deal with you emotions of course, but no one is perfect, we all are trying our best to decifer how to deal with our issues and in his case he is avoiding his issues and just "living in the pleasure, not really wanting to think about the consequences". I just think its an interesting and very real approach, we all do what we can in different ways ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~
Of course, each person is different, but uke's character has a lot contradictions unfortunately, this is why it so unrealistic for me, I did a little bit of psychology, and it isn't a correct pattern of behaviour, that's all, like author wanted to add some spicy scenes and added that hyung topic, and uke's actions are just out of nowhere! I hope there will be a better explanation for uke's anxiety, but for now it looks unconsidered
Bitch, what?! "No one is perfect" about what we just saw?! ?!!
Him being shitty is "real", yes. So is him not being shitty.
If you like how this is going, fine. Why try to justify him too though? You're saying two things and using one ro argue the other:
- you like the story, it feels realistic.
- you don't get the hate for his actions.
The 1st being used to argue the 2nd and the 2nd part is the issue. HOW do you not get it?!
Yeah, like I said, uke's behaviour is just out of nowhere! The thing that he still doesn't see anything wrong to sleep with that gay in the future because they don't have feelings to each other, however he's still showed as shy, insecure guy, come on, how does such a thinking proves his love to seme, since he can treat him so badly! He went to that guy right after he spent a night with seme, he even confessed, but uke go to sleep with that guy, covering his eyes, pretending he is with seme...any sense? No, the author should think better about his characters and should be consistent in this, and not suddenly change the behaviour of tge character out of nowhere!
We are only 12 chapters in, its hard to tell much about the characters yet ╮(￣▽￣)╭ yall could be right too. I just think its ok to not be too judgemental on people who are trying to figure out what to do with their lives and have nowhere or no one to turn to when shit goes down on them. This happens in real life too, its not just "the artist is making up this story with wack and weak characters", those characters, ive seen them in real life too... Maybe I see things differently cause I'm almost 30 (still think I'm pretty young and dumb honestly)ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~
Well, I'm over 30 now, and yeah, probably dumb and irritating characters are probably not my cup of tea (￣∇￣") also after almost 20 years of reading bl, I think I'm just sick of all that cheating and rape topics in this industry, that's all
I'm bored of the same stories and this is a little different. We see an uke struggling to find a way to express his frustrations and emotions and people hate him for choosing to do it through sex ┗( T﹏T )┛ let people live, no one is perfect, and imperfect characters are more interesting to me ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~