So, did the wife leave him after or before he got raped by her brother?

After I believe!
he started being more needy because of what happened to him wanted to have a kid with her and started drinking to cope and she dipped :(

after coz he was being a pain in the ass (i mean poor guy) lol

Thanks… somehow, that makes me feel sadder for him

Yeah, I’m surprised he is not more messed up