Hex asked her if she wants to stay with him and she said yes to hex and asked to leave her family
They might've meant to ask if she wanted to stay w Hexion or w Red hair while doing what they just talked in the last chapter.
But she only has experience staying under the radar, she has no real lasting experience in stuff like this (spending long periods of time enduring being targeted directly, watched really closely, etc, etc). The only experience she has with anything like this is the brief realization of being targeted directly that she got right before she died in her past life (before then, she'd never had any reason to think they'd seriously want her dead, oer just throwing her out) so right now, they probably know best because they're A LOT more familiarized with situations like this than she is, at the moment.
A slight correction: They probably know best because they're A LOT more familiarized with *the schemes of that murdering emperor* than she is, at the moment.
all this fighting from the both of them is getting on my nerves…hello? did ya’ll even ASK HER where she wants to stay?