I can understand both sides though. I don't think the girl's dad raised her wrong, that's just how she turned out. I would apologize on my kids behalf and do whatever I can to fix what little is in my power.(though, trying to settle things at that point is too much to ask for).However I don't condone her actions and she really should be locked up. Seeing how the incident is still new I wouldn't expect him to let it go yet
But I'd hope he can learn to forgive them later on in life. People say "forgive but don't forget"..but I've realized we cling to these memories and become sour, therefore we never truly forgave the ones who wronged us. We are all capable of doing terrible things. Difference between us and others is one acts on it and the other doesn't. But wickedness is already in our hearts. Not saying it's okay though.
Respectfully I don't speak down on his parenting style because a persons mental health is contributed from many different areas (not just the parents). I understand they're different situations where you can speak on your child's behalf (like my daughter is 2 I speak for her when she does something & I also make her apologize for her actions) but when my child is over the age of adolescents & should know better but doesn't I can't coddle her anymore because she should know better especially if she was a repeat offender.
There is only so much you can let slide with a person & Doo Joon & Heewon plus their baby was almost murdered. Then directly afterwards in the damm hospital the father is trying to plead for her again.... literally enough. Trust me I know about forgiveness & I've had some really terrible things that happened to me throughout my life & I know how to accept forgiveness even if the person never apologized. I domt believe in holding grudges (its bad for your health) & on top of that why stay mad at a person & keep the pain alive... I believe in healing & moving on.
I'm glad you understand the concept of forgiveness they're people who STILL don't know. Like I understand when a person is young they haven't fully grasp the concept but at a certain point they have to see the bigger picture... especially when too many others dont.
Absolutely, I agree. I have 3 kiddos so I get it. And I've had my fair share of suffering do to the vile intentions and actions of others as well. There's only so much one can take.
I really liked your response.
Omg Thank You ! I thought my response wasn't good enough because your response was great!! The way you first commented I knew you weren't one of these 13yr Olds trying to argue with me before they've reached their wise years. Anyway Happy Reading
Having dealt with a mental health patient first hand Doo Joon handled the situation very well. Enough is enough & it was definetly time for her to face consequences. I do not feel bad for the dad. Personally I don't appreciate people who apologize on other peoples behalf.