Wait I agree that it’s not a fetish. I’m pretty sure that’s what you’re saying until it goes past a certain point. I like reading bill because it doesn’t have women in it. Specifically pregnancy type one because I’ve read watch too many when it comes to women being in so much pain And it because of how how they treated I feel like there’s a gap because I’m not a guy and I’m into romance stories
so BL kind of gives me a different understanding, and perspective so that’s why I like it.
But I do agree when you start pushing it onto real life people and you do not have a proper set boundary between your fantasy what you read and what’s fake and what is real life, human beings, flesh and blood type shit that becomes an issue
Let’s all agree reading bl is a fetish BUT it becomes one when reading it is your entire personality, you force what you read onto gay men, you think “I wanna be a guy and gay and a bottom” bc you think it’s cute, OR WHEN YOU LITERALLY DIE AND GET REBORN INTO A NOVEL AS A GUY SO YOU CAN TURN IT INTO A BL