already absolutely disgusted how they treat it as so normal to decide over another human beings life and happiness without EVER even recognising how unhappy and unwilling she is. That father can go fuck himself. No matter how good of a father he is allover, the fact that he treats the future of his daughter like his own possession to decide and sell over as he wishes for some totally irrational reason that has nothing to do with her like "his friends dying wish"...that dead dude is also a fucking bastard for imposing and pressuring people with his last words as a dying man....no matter how nice all of those guys are in chapter one, they are all ultimately fucking up as they treat a 16 year old like a piece of rock to pass around as they wish. Talking about having 3 kids, calling a guy her husband....fuck she is barely even a TEEN and you already do that to her and the father says nothing. God really. I had a father who was very toxic at home, because he had a pitiful childhood and thus a very twisted personality and view of love and family. But still, he wanted his daughters to get education and study and learn as much as they wanted and IF they had gotten independent ergo had their own career and job and could take care of themselves and THEN decided to settle down with a man, only then he said he would accept any guy coming to ask for his blessings. Didn't mean he wanted us to become something specific or go to uni or something, just to do graduate high school and then either go to uni or get an apprenticeship and then have our own money that only belongs to us so that we won't ever be dependent on any man. he is for an equal relationship. and if any dude came like that "best friend" he would have said to his face "sorry my friend, but i didn't fpick up my daughter on some shabby streets (turkish saying meaning something like, she is not some second hand trash to recycle) to give her to some man she didn't chose herself just because you want to see your own child not lonely after you leave.if it is destined, they will find each other. don't ask me to do that to my own daughter as a father please." etc. etc. gosh really.....also if i was her, i would just stay there until i am 18 and done with high school, and behind the back of that dad apply and arrange everything to go to uni in another city with dorm and shit and then on the day i graduate arrange it so that i slowly brought all the stuff i need with me to some locker at the train station and then after school just run to the train station, pick up my stuff and leave that fucked up house. then send a letter or sms to that bastards of a father explaining what i am doing and that you are 18 now and he can not legally tell you what to do anymore and that you want him to respect your choices about YOUR OWN LIFE and if he doesn't want to then sadly it means that your relationship will end there and you give up your role as a daughter now as you cannot be a daughter to a father who forgot his responsibilities and duties as a FATHER for a DAUGHTER. i feel like so many kids seem like they are Stockholm syndrome prisoners to their own parents, they are already free and can just live freely, but chose to mentally be imprisoned by the ideas and demands of their own parents as if they will die if they don't get acknowledges by shit parents. grow some self awareness and start taking responsibility over your own life for gods sake. don't dump it on your parents. if you do, you already sold your self cheap and have no right to complain what they do with the life you just dumped onto them to decide over...like wtf. gosh this made me so angry.......i hope that fucking wanna be of a father wakes up soon or gets some kind of reality check for real.....disgustiiiiiiiing
edit: wow...thought she didn't have a mom and that the dad was crazy because she died and his friend died, but no the mom is there and also the same kind of bitch as the father. ah really. disgusting on another level those two.
already absolutely disgusted how they treat it as so normal to decide over another human beings life and happiness without EVER even recognising how unhappy and unwilling she is. That father can go fuck himself. No matter how good of a father he is allover, the fact that he treats the future of his daughter like his own possession to decide and sell over as he wishes for some totally irrational reason that has nothing to do with her like "his friends dying wish"...that dead dude is also a fucking bastard for imposing and pressuring people with his last words as a dying man....no matter how nice all of those guys are in chapter one, they are all ultimately fucking up as they treat a 16 year old like a piece of rock to pass around as they wish. Talking about having 3 kids, calling a guy her husband....fuck she is barely even a TEEN and you already do that to her and the father says nothing. God really. I had a father who was very toxic at home, because he had a pitiful childhood and thus a very twisted personality and view of love and family. But still, he wanted his daughters to get education and study and learn as much as they wanted and IF they had gotten independent ergo had their own career and job and could take care of themselves and THEN decided to settle down with a man, only then he said he would accept any guy coming to ask for his blessings. Didn't mean he wanted us to become something specific or go to uni or something, just to do graduate high school and then either go to uni or get an apprenticeship and then have our own money that only belongs to us so that we won't ever be dependent on any man. he is for an equal relationship. and if any dude came like that "best friend" he would have said to his face "sorry my friend, but i didn't fpick up my daughter on some shabby streets (turkish saying meaning something like, she is not some second hand trash to recycle) to give her to some man she didn't chose herself just because you want to see your own child not lonely after you leave.if it is destined, they will find each other. don't ask me to do that to my own daughter as a father please." etc. etc. gosh really.....also if i was her, i would just stay there until i am 18 and done with high school, and behind the back of that dad apply and arrange everything to go to uni in another city with dorm and shit and then on the day i graduate arrange it so that i slowly brought all the stuff i need with me to some locker at the train station and then after school just run to the train station, pick up my stuff and leave that fucked up house. then send a letter or sms to that bastards of a father explaining what i am doing and that you are 18 now and he can not legally tell you what to do anymore and that you want him to respect your choices about YOUR OWN LIFE and if he doesn't want to then sadly it means that your relationship will end there and you give up your role as a daughter now as you cannot be a daughter to a father who forgot his responsibilities and duties as a FATHER for a DAUGHTER. i feel like so many kids seem like they are Stockholm syndrome prisoners to their own parents, they are already free and can just live freely, but chose to mentally be imprisoned by the ideas and demands of their own parents as if they will die if they don't get acknowledges by shit parents. grow some self awareness and start taking responsibility over your own life for gods sake. don't dump it on your parents. if you do, you already sold your self cheap and have no right to complain what they do with the life you just dumped onto them to decide over...like wtf. gosh this made me so angry.......i hope that fucking wanna be of a father wakes up soon or gets some kind of reality check for real.....disgustiiiiiiiing
edit: wow...thought she didn't have a mom and that the dad was crazy because she died and his friend died, but no the mom is there and also the same kind of bitch as the father. ah really. disgusting on another level those two.