While the Uke actions can be considered annoying you are forgetting he DIDN'T know it was a dead person.
It's literally stated there, he didn't know, if he knew he would have never "pressured" him as you claim about saying it.
In his point of view that was simply an ex lover, not a dead lover.
You are not really thinking this realistically, it's true he had to say it but that's literally the "problem" he (The seme) needed to overcome.
Open up to people, be willing to let people know him.
If you see a person you are dating with a photo of an ex lover in your lover apartment you might say right now "I would wait for them to be comfortable to tell me" you would think you are able to wait until they feel ready, but sometimes a person need to be pressured, otherwise how long would you have to wait? Weeks? Months? Years?
No one even with the patience of a Saint can resist that long.
You missed the whole context.
MC gets constantly compared to "someone who reminds him of a person", constantly get told Seme sleeps around and always steal people from others (aka constantly use people for sex and hurt those close to him because it's fun to steal partners from your friends in the Seme opinion) and is never serious about relationships.
Sorry if the Uke feels like he's being used as a substitute for the Seme ex.
The uke didn't know, the Seme have the right to not be honest about it but when it's damaging a relationship you wish to treasure you aren't doing it because pressured into confessing.
While the Uke actions can be considered annoying you are forgetting he DIDN'T know it was a dead person.
It's literally stated there, he didn't know, if he knew he would have never "pressured" him as you claim about saying it.
In his point of view that was simply an ex lover, not a dead lover.
You are not really thinking this realistically, it's true he had to say it but that's literally the "problem" he (The seme) needed to overcome.
Open up to people, be willing to let people know him.
If you see a person you are dating with a photo of an ex lover in your lover apartment you might say right now "I would wait for them to be comfortable to tell me" you would think you are able to wait until they feel ready, but sometimes a person need to be pressured, otherwise how long would you have to wait? Weeks? Months? Years?
No one even with the patience of a Saint can resist that long.
You missed the whole context.
MC gets constantly compared to "someone who reminds him of a person", constantly get told Seme sleeps around and always steal people from others (aka constantly use people for sex and hurt those close to him because it's fun to steal partners from your friends in the Seme opinion) and is never serious about relationships.
Sorry if the Uke feels like he's being used as a substitute for the Seme ex.
The uke didn't know, the Seme have the right to not be honest about it but when it's damaging a relationship you wish to treasure you aren't doing it because pressured into confessing, but because you want to keep the relationship you treasure with the person you love and show yourself vulnerable to them while also being honest instead of hiding things like he did the whole time.
I agree with u but I checked the dates of theese comments and it made me luagh to see that u answered 3 years later
SPOILER
at conflict before the end waaaas really irritating like srsly I aldready got a hunch that the ex might be dead so it's reall annoying how the uke pushed the seme to tell the uke what happened and didn't give let him take his time. thouht i was going explode when the uke sid sorry like damn that's what you get grrr so immature.
Well it's his first so i think it's also understandable, it annoys me tho
Also maybe the auhor rushed it bc she was going to drop it, so i thinki turned out for the best too than leaving us with a cliffhanger. This was nice and adoraaable, such a wste that this is dropped. Looking forward to it's update, one day, i hope.