Woah

I don't think that there'll be a rival, but that girl from before will probably do something

Hopefully not and yeah probably :/. And I also heard she becomes good friends with them in the raws(?).

As somebody with a very high sex drive, I just had to find someone who also has a high sex drive. I used to have 3 fwb, but after I met my ex, I’ve been satisfied…most of the time. By the looks of it, Yohan matches Jinhyun’s sex drive pretty well so I don’t think our dear uke will have the cheating issue…hopefully.

Still need medical help for sex addictions, it can improve a healthy lifestyle too and decrease chances of infections, herpes, etc. Jihyun himself stated he can’t control it so that’s why I’m saying HE needs help/
You seem to be good at controlling maybe? If so, that’s good for you! You said “ex”, you broke up w them?

Yohan does indeed match with Jihyun. But doesn’t guarantee he won't cheat. All we gotta hope is that is he WON’T. And yk how BLs be, treating mental issues- psychological issues like it’s not a big deal. So I doubt this author will show Jihyun getting help.

Of course not all sex addicts have multiple partners, most are even in committed relationships. And not all sex addicts actually participate in sexual inter courses, they mostly fantasize. I still suggest getting medical help for their psychological problem, compulsive behavior connection w/ sex addiction.

I can’t tell if Jihyun really loves Yohan for him and not his dick/body, but I only wish them the best. Falling in love fast astonishes me, sorry. Of course many people fall in love fast in reality as well.

I hope so.. I'm tired of lesbians always being made the villains

And it’s no ones fault if we find her annoying as hell, authors for some reason portrays all women as that type or the very annoying one, bitchy one, etc.

I feel like it’s not that he can’t control it but he’s been conditioned to believe that he can’t control it. And he does need help for that but like you stated, I’ve almost never seen BLs show characters seeking professional help for their mental issues.

Yeah, we dated for only a month. But got a lot closer after breaking up. Complicated relationship.

Got closer after breaking up? I guess ya two were meant to be more like close friends then. Many people can misunderstand platonic friendship as love, not that I have any experience to say more as I am aromantic.

And idk, cause he stated himself that he has the impulse to seek more sex. It can go out of control. I’m speaking of both reality and fiction, anyone with sex addiction in reality should go get help, fiction is fiction lmao.

And yes exactly, many authors do not give no fucks for mental issues, showing resolutions for mental issues, nope. Many BLs are repeated plots with similar looking characters, cliche, etc.

I don’t develop romantic feelings for any gender other than women but sexual attraction still exists. I broke it off because I realised he was having a hard time in the d/s part of our relationship (which we still have) because he realised I didn’t have feelings for him. He still acts as a father figure to my kid, we still go on dates and he stays the night on a daily basis which is why I say complicated lol. It’s just that there’s no expectation of loyalty or commitment, and he roots for me if I think of pursuing a relationship with someone else.

BL is mostly fetishisation anyhow so my expectations are low. Rarely see mental issues being resolved by mental help, rape seems normalised, almost never do s&m BLs show how it should be (safety, safewords, making sure it’s consensual, aftercare, limits). Whenever I see an author ending the BL with a psychopath and the main character being in a romantic relationship, it’s a wtf moment for me *cough*If you hate me so*cough*

Ah that is complicated, I see what you mean, it’s nice he’s there. For me even if I like someone a bit/interested in them, my interest/attraction dies easily so I have no hope for any relationships except casual ones or mainly friendships.
It’s not too bad, more time for myself. I end up cutting off contacts after I meet people outside, when they text me or try to call, I do talk until I lose interest. I’m a douche yes. I think I just prefer and like being alone.

I agree with everything you said about BL being mostly fetishized. Rape is indeed normalized and mental issues / help non-existing. When I said something similar to this, people would say it’s just fiction and fantasies. Well that’s some fucked up fantasies I must say, and I don’t bother w/ what they do, too lazy.

Are you talking about the BL- If you hate me so? lmao I dropped that. The art is nice imo, but the plot is similar or more like the issues within the story.” SIGH”, that’s my response to those types of BLs.

Friendships are nice, much less complicated than romantic relationships imo. I’m the opposite, I hate being alone. I love going out, socialising, etc. I usually can’t go after people that I do develop feelings for because they’re always the super nice type…and tend to be vanilla. Being a masochistic sub with a high sex drive means that I’ll prioritise a good sex life over love even if it’s really hard on me emotionally.

Fiction and fantasies can be problematic. BL and GL itself is problematic in how it fetishises lgbt. Quite disturbing as it’s a mostly straight female audience that enjoys the not consensual relationships between gay/bi male characters depicted inBL. Think it’s similar to how it’s problematic that it is an audience of mostly straight men that fetishise wlw relationships in porn, erotica and in reality.

Yep, the BL if you hate me so. I like the author’s other story (Love is an illusion) but if you hate me so was so bad. There’s so much rape and the uke suffers so much trauma.

Yes friendships indeed are less complicated than romantic relationships. Damn this talk makes me sound depressing but I’m really not, just prefer peace quiet time with some tea and a novella. Aside from Misophobia, I have Misophonia (hatred of specific sounds), probably one of the main reasons why I like being alone.

That’s good for you if that’s what you prioritize, and what do you mean by “even if it’s really hard on me emotionally”?

Indeed, fictions and fantasies are both problematic. I definitely wouldn’t want to be in someone’s fantasies doing shit I’d never do. Though that’s just me, not sure about some others. And I barely find good BLs that actually portrays gay people realistically, there always has to be a love rival in fiction, love triangle or rape/assault as if every man wants MC.

That’s how you can tell BL is hardcore fetishized. It’s normalized to the point I found it normal in fiction, disgusts me in reality.

I agree, I also like the author’s other work; Love is an Illusion, art is pretty nice and plot is nice overall with minor flaws I think (I finished reading a while ago; don’t remember much). If you hate me so- major flaws. I don’t even remember what happened for the most part, does the Uke get raped by who a lot again?
Don’t wanna re read it, scene gonna haunt me.