I was a fool yo think he would stop after learning it was his first time

Aris_Storm July 10, 2021 8:22 am

I was a fool yo think he would stop after learning it was his first time

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    skkrt July 10, 2021 8:27 am

    No need to stop, it's not like the uke was telling him to stop or was resisting. Idk, seemed consensual to me

    lilac July 10, 2021 10:05 am
    No need to stop, it's not like the uke was telling him to stop or was resisting. Idk, seemed consensual to me skkrt

    Yeahhhh, when uke knows the guy is a wolf and he still went near, that’s basically asking to be fucked

    Empress Zia July 10, 2021 12:06 pm
    Yeahhhh, when uke knows the guy is a wolf and he still went near, that’s basically asking to be fucked lilac

    OK no. He didn't know he was a wolf no one did. The Seme seems to have had EVERYONE under the impression that he was a dog, and saying that Uke going near Seme is "basically asking to be fucked" is attacker mentality. Those are exactly the kinds of words one might expect from a rapist or sexual harasser. Saying him just going near must mean he wants to get fucked is like saying a person going out in public in a tight fitting or revealing outfit must mean they want to get assaulted. Further more Uke only approached because he wanted to help and was genuinely concerned. He didn't deliberately do or say anything provocative or suggestive. All in all, consent isn't about whether or not they "resisted enough" it's about whether they said yes or no.

    Aris_Storm July 10, 2021 2:12 pm
    OK no. He didn't know he was a wolf no one did. The Seme seems to have had EVERYONE under the impression that he was a dog, and saying that Uke going near Seme is "basically asking to be fucked" is attacker men... Empress Zia

    THANK YOU FOR SAYING THIS. Like I've read my fair share of BL where the seme does not give a flying fuck about whether the uke said yes or no, and I generaly don't complain because these tropes are common. BUT there have been some BL manga/webtoon where even though the uke is emitting pheramones or is in heat, the seme controls himself. I've also learned that manga with this kind of panel style is kinda wack, so I should have expected less. ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

    lilac July 10, 2021 11:10 pm
    OK no. He didn't know he was a wolf no one did. The Seme seems to have had EVERYONE under the impression that he was a dog, and saying that Uke going near Seme is "basically asking to be fucked" is attacker men... Empress Zia

    He saw the ears??? Wtf u talking abt???

    Empress Zia July 11, 2021 12:30 am
    He saw the ears??? Wtf u talking abt??? lilac

    Ok I went back and checked and I'll relent on that he knew he was a wolf cause he did see the ears before everything went down, but that's it. Whether Seme is a wolf, dog, cat, giraffe, or whatever isn't the issue here. To be clear Uke knowing Seme was a wolf isn't enough to refute or invalidate any part of the point I'm trying to make.