Don't do it! Real kids are little shits! (who are cute on rare occasions)
being surrounded by kids on the daily, I know (￣∇￣") but if I am, I think I'll adopt and go to parenting class/therapy first, I don't want to scar my kids
I have to kids i babysit and i love them but damn do i lack the patience for their shenanigans. Couldn't do it if it was 24/7
Damn me too. I really wanna be a mother but I never want to get pregnant, I'd end up aborting. Imma adopt when I know I'm financially and mentally stable enough. Ain't gonna pass this trauma down.
goddamn i feel you, i was the firstborn in the entire family, so i had to babysit all the siblings and cousins for free everytime there was a family outing or smth, maybe thats why I don't like to go out ┑(￣Д ￣)┍
i think its good that we are starting to be more careful about marriage, pregnancy, and children in this age although older people shame us for that, its better for everyone if we're really ready and sure about it, its especially better for the kids, when i hear about ppl with the same view as me on this I'm relieved really
the twins are giving me baby fever omg, and I'm terrified of pregnancy