Instead of directly communicating and saying his worries and admitting he’s anxious so t...

brightmoon July 9, 2021 12:55 pm

Instead of directly communicating and saying his worries and admitting he’s anxious so they can talk it out, he resorted to gaslighting felix by guilt tripping him by saying “maybe you find me burdensome that’s why you’re saying that” and all. he’s clearly the one who’s in the wrong here but you guys are so irrational so whatever

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    brightmoon July 9, 2021 12:56 pm

    i know an irl who manipulates my friend by telling her that his actions are justifiable because of his upbringing. i don’t think it’s okay to let other people take responsibility of your traumas when they are not involved in it in the first place.

    randomfangirl July 9, 2021 1:48 pm

    Relax honey. They do talk it out and he agrees to the treatment.
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    He even starts to feel heat in chapter 138.

    brightmoon July 9, 2021 1:50 pm
    Relax honey. They do talk it out and he agrees to the treatment.Spoiler Alert............He even starts to feel heat in chapter 138. randomfangirl

    that’s really good. good for them. i based my opinion with the available chapters. thanks for telling me!

    Candy111 July 9, 2021 8:22 pm

    You’re acting as a person who had experienced some sort of trauma would easily open up about his/her worries be it fictional or non fictional....

    brightmoon July 9, 2021 8:27 pm
    You’re acting as a person who had experienced some sort of trauma would easily open up about his/her worries be it fictional or non fictional.... Candy111

    that’s not my point? to be fair as someone who has a trauma, i know it’s not easy to open up but i’m not going to use my trauma as an excuse to emotionally manipulate other people. my point is, it’s my trauma so why should i let others take responsibility of it? individual’s traumas should not be use as justification in gaslighting other people.

    Candy111 July 10, 2021 1:22 am
    that’s not my point? to be fair as someone who has a trauma, i know it’s not easy to open up but i’m not going to use my trauma as an excuse to emotionally manipulate other people. my point is, it’s my ... brightmoon

    I get your point however to be frank Felix is treading on light water now, it’s obviously a touchy subject for Gio but Felix keeps pressuring him into answering which Gio is not ready. And I apologize for my last response cause I was heated in that moment. Do I like that he’s hiding it in no, but he’s simply not ready to open up about that.( spoiler: he does in future chapters) and it seems people are thinking “oh if he opens up it would be so much better” to be frank it’s not that easy and because of that he resorts to other things such as dodging the question and having sex.

    Candy111 July 10, 2021 1:28 am
    I get your point however to be frank Felix is treading on light water now, it’s obviously a touchy subject for Gio but Felix keeps pressuring him into answering which Gio is not ready. And I apologize for my ... Candy111

    And to be frank again I relate to Gio with this I was in the something similar I had a problem that I was dealing with but I kept it in due to the outcome of it, and to be frank the relationship ended due to the fact a person had decided to put pressure on me to answer only for them to blame it on me and ultimately exploding back at me, and before that I use to leave where the said person was and wander by myself( like a distraction). So I understand where he fears that something bad might happen after the outcome. Mind you the person I knew I had a fear of ending long time relationships and only ended up to pressure me to tell them the truth but only to blame it on me. So yes I understand where Gio is keeping it in to avoid the disturbance within his relationship.