Yeah it means you're a manipulative asshole who should be dumped. No one deserves their feelings played with by someone who claims to love them. If you care about someone you're trash if you make them jealous on purpose when you feel insecure AND THEN judge their sexual preferences at the same time, period.
i think it is really clear that seme is not judging uke's sexual preferences. instead he is feeling insecure because he feels he never satisfies him in a way that uke wants. also i think being as indifferent as uke also makes seme insecure. so i dont really judge seme for trying to be sure about his lover's feeling.
What's "really clear" about it is "I hate this" and sitting there hating their "don't look" game. Did you read the same chapter? It's gross that you don't judge someone for manipulating and hurting his lover for his own selfish feelings. Period. The uke was CHEATED ON before and that's his fear and the seme knows it! So triggering that fear for his personal satisfaction only to not give the uke what he wants in bed is WEAK and gross.
You can be sure about your lovers feelings by, gee I don't know, this is a hard one... oh right, TALKING about them with your lover. Man, that took me all day to come up with and I considered pretending to cheat on my gf first, good thing I'm not a selfish pos!
(I'm not as mad as I sound, just have too much energy this morning!)
omg it is really great that you said this because i was scared reading your comments lol. it is just my opinion and i don't think it is unreasonable one. even tough they are 2d they are still human and every person acts selfish sometimes to get what they want. and seme has done so much things for uke until now so i really doubt something trivial like this will change their relationship dynamic. also as far as i remember seme always thought that because he don't enjoy hurting uke, uke is not -totally- enjoying sex too. in last chapter tho seme was somewhat a little different while having sex as you said. (:
No worries! You're right it's just a difference of opinion :) I'm not all against toxic traits in fictional characters and I don't blame the seme for being insecure either! I'm actually more upset with him chasing a masochist without wanting to give him what he wants than I am him making him jealous on purpose, because in the long run not being sexually compatible is worse than a one time manipulative event!
yesss i agree with you but i'm sure they both are ready for such conflicts on important matters. it was nice kinda arguing/brainstorming with you<3
Yeah sorry I came off aggro lol <3 We'll both go back to reading this trainwreck relationship and hope for the best haha
lol ikr
tbh i dont totally disagree with the actions of seme. trying to make someone jeaolus while you are not doing something bad just means you are desperate to know if your lovers feelings is as strong as yours.