It´s so true. Sometimes they just want the best but it will became crasy. A direkt comunikation is the best. And after i read this chapter - i just think the blond brother is soooo enouing. And then i read your comment. All i could do was nicking like crasy.
So true we do understand that each parents wants the best for their kids and that's where the problem comes in.... They want what's best for their OWN CHILD be it your own parents or your other half's parents. Because of that instead of putting off the fire they will add even more fuel to the fire creating more problem. They will take the side of their own children and amplifies the problem even more. I mean problems between couples should be just between them.
Ok I realized this when I was in my 3rd year of my relationship with my boyfriend. When your family got involve with you romantic relationship problems 99.9% guaranteed your problems won't be solve instead it will go even more complicated than the time they are not interfering, believe me we almost broke up because of that. After me and my boyfriend both reconciled we both agreed not to get our families involve in any future problems that we may have.