But honestly how do you deal with kids like that??? Pls i need some advice because my aunts son is a spoiled brat （/TДT)/
I'll like some advice too. Just in case I may need it one day
Honestly this is the worst advice anyone can give you so I say do the exact opposite of what I'm telling you. It honestly depends on the child you should be more stern with some then others depends on their character. Even if they're bad kids don't let them forget you still love them because kids who always get in trouble tend to think that it's becuase they are just not loved when that's not the case in fact you're only doing it becuase you care about them. Hitting is never a good solution you might think it is but in the long run its not. Kids aren't dumb so don't underestimate them.
Be stern. Best if the kid gets sent to boarding or is taken care of by other people for a bit. A lot of the problem will lie with parenting, eg if the parents don’t scold enough they tend to be spoiled. Not getting enough experience with people will also make them entitled. I think sports camps are great, esp with a tough coach haha. And having to put up with kids more annoying than them are great too.
Some more constructive ways to get them to grow up is giving them some kind of responsibility. Like taking care of an animal, or asking them to do something and saying: hey can I trust you to do a good job of this?
Or, if they have something they are passionate about give them the opportunity to work for it.
Fax. Don’t hit ur kids. Also don’t mindlessly snap at them. Really assess how big of a deal their misbehaviour is, if it is really bad then you can afford to be a bit angry. But if its trivial then just pull them aside and gently tell them why they should try not to do that.
Thanks for the advice guys!! Even tho I'm bad with kids I'll try to do my best in taking care of my cousin! (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
Based on my own experience (i have 2 spoiled nieces) i just ignore them when they throw a fit/ tantrum. And when they eventually get tired and settle down, that's where I talk to them. I start by saying what they did wrong, and then proceed to tell them what's the right thing to do/explain the situation in a calm manner. Also set limits don't give them what they want cuz they cried.
I'll keep that in mind!
I find its better to try to sort it out when they have a tantrum rather than wait till after, so they don’t get in the habit of throwing them in the first place. Or of you can’t stop them, tell them to go to their room or something until theyve calmed down then do what you said.
BRO you’re gonna traumatise the kid wtf lmfao