
Well really on my opinion I think shounen ai tends to focus more on the development of the relationship leaving less room for smut scene BUT I have read some that do have smut scenes but it's still shounen ai while yaoi it does focus on the relationship you will definitely see a lot of smut scene so basically just think of it like this shounen ai is more about the relationship than the sex while yaoi there is relationship but includes a lot of sex scenes and remember none of the genre guarantees fluff there could be angst in both and any genre.

High horse? If you say so. I meant to say gay Japanese men not a women. seems like you are the one who needs to get off your high horse since you obviously don’t like to listen to GAY Japanese men instead you listen a WOMAN who isn’t a gay male. I think it’s funny how you don’t listen to actual gay men telling you that those terms are outdated but instead you listen to a fujoshi. As I said it’s just called BL stop invalidating gay Japanese men just so you could use these outdated terms which are usually linked to fetishization. Get better soon.
"this is yaoi not shounen ai (thank god ikr)"
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