(Dont bully me I just told my opinion in my personal perspective) She have rights about ...

JaneSarang July 6, 2021 6:45 pm

(Dont bully me I just told my opinion in my personal perspective)


She have rights about her feelings. She is a person too. In asian cultures (actually in mine too) divorce is a big thing. Especially meet a ex wife or husband. If I was her I will feel insecure or feel "disappointed" for my partner too. He did a big fuss when her ex called her in somone else's phone but he send messages and meet with his ex wife freely. He cant critize her while he did same things too. Bro that's not a Ex GF. That's a EX WIFE. She is right. Yes she is immature but she can feel that way. In my country we dont meet our ex wife or husband or gf or bf if we dont have any kids. That's so uncomfortable for our partners. We dont need see somone already fooling on bed in old times. I dont need that I dont want that too. Yes that's selfish but that's my opinion. Call me narrow minded but that's it. I dont want the see my bf's exs with him or meet them.

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    Misaki July 6, 2021 7:23 pm

    Finally! A person have same opinion with me. For someone who coming from asian culture, we all know how insecure or unrespectful if our partner go meet his ex wife even tho they working in same place. And also if you are divorce, most asian elders would see you as someone who is not good at taking care your household and decide to not allow their child marry widowers. Its quite stressful living in asian culture tbh bcz they want their child to be as perfect as possible and we always being taught not to do something that would tarnish our family name.

    Luanaluna543 July 6, 2021 8:17 pm

    But when did he meet up with her? Never. They just saw each other and said hello nothing more and nothing less.
    His ex wife also got remarried and loves a different man not our ml (same goes for our ml).
    Our fl is on a different note, because her ex boyfriend has feelings for her, that didn’t change and she also had feelings for him even when she started to like our ml. She just recently decided that she wants to only love our ml.
    This is why our ml is so jealous and why it is something different.

    JaneSarang July 6, 2021 9:22 pm
    Finally! A person have same opinion with me. For someone who coming from asian culture, we all know how insecure or unrespectful if our partner go meet his ex wife even tho they working in same place. And also ... Misaki

    Omg! Yes! I am asian too! Finally somone which one can understand me (╬ ̄皿 ̄)凸

    Stella July 6, 2021 10:30 pm
    But when did he meet up with her? Never. They just saw each other and said hello nothing more and nothing less. His ex wife also got remarried and loves a different man not our ml (same goes for our ml). Our fl... Luanaluna543

    Ahhhh!!!!! Finally I reply I was searching in all comments

    bodywash is better than soap July 7, 2021 4:34 am

    im sorry but i meant to dislike. nothing personal. it's just that no, kang DID NOT meet his ex wife frequently. heck- when did he ever interact with her personally after their divorce? just that one time they saw each other outside the office building which is coincidentally when cha saw them. so while i do agree being a divorcee is a sensitive issue for us asians, kang was not the issue here. and i am disappointed that he had to be the one to say sorry first.

    Stella July 7, 2021 6:15 am
    im sorry but i meant to dislike. nothing personal. it's just that no, kang DID NOT meet his ex wife frequently. heck- when did he ever interact with her personally after their divorce? just that one time they s... bodywash is better than soap

    Exactly, it wasnt like she was staying at his house and he was being extremely chummy with her, unlike Fl.