Thank you so much for this wonderful post!! Some people expect a person dealing w trauma to fix their issues alone, when I tell them Jiwoon needs Suha, they say it isn’t Suha’s responsibility and I know but then what’s the point of being in a relationship?
I think the author makes Suha’s character dense in traits for the plot… I hope he realizes soon. The signs are so obvious.
People expect everything to be perfect, and in this case, they expect Jiwoon to be perfect, no traumas or struggles whatsoever. I assume those who complain about this are kids or those who don’t have experience with these situations which is understandable.
As you said, struggle is bound to happen any day any time.
yall are so used to seeing trauma being swept under a rug and i think thats why so many of you are freaking out rn.
this was bound to happen, to one of the characters or both, as it has been directly and indirectly implied that both characters had unpleasant pasts and heavy trauma that bulit up until this point.
-its unfortunate that Jiwoons mental state has been pushed to such limits but honestly, its quite realistic. like how did yall read all 70+ chapters of this (esp the last 15 chapters) and not expect something like this to happen? that was too much to overlook. i think yall are really quick to hate Jiwoon without actually thinking about all hes been through and at least understand him.
- Also, it seems like Suha is quite unaware of the density of Jiwoons actions and behavior, or hes simply ignoring it?? maybe because he normally ignores his problems himself or something. i hope he really does what he can as an s.o to help Jiwoon (and himself ofc) and that they can at least talk about it in effort to be on equal ground or something.