He's scared Alex will start treating the kid as his own and stray away from Cole and all etc etc plus Cole is pretty possessive and scary so the thought of someone else bearing Alex's kid bothers him
He just wants him all for himself. To Cole, Alex donating his sperm to the couple would mean he's giving a part of himself away
Well ... From what im seeing here, I think it's must be his bad experience from the past that left him disagree. I don't know, but if a child doesn't have a happy childhood, happy family, maybe, then they have a bigger chance to deny marriage and having children. First because he thinks he's incapable of raising a child to be good and healthy. He talked about his past where he used to be a rebellious suicide kid, it must have left him scared, and he's afraid to make his child a version of him, and he's is afraid of responsibility and fail it. But Alex seems to be different, I don't know about his past but his life view is very different from Cole, and since they kept their point and won't accept what other view, they'll never stop fight, a common reason for break up, different POV. It's not just about sperm donor, but how he felt about Alex wanting a child of their own and stuff..... Yeah
thank u guys
can someone explain why cole doesnt want alex to be a sperm donor? im having a hard time understanding his point or smth