I love your response. Some people here do not understand, or even care to I assume. Some people just want PERFECTness which doesn’t exist even if the word does.
Jiwoon isn’t perfect, he’s normal human with struggles. And he can’t deal w it alone without Suha, the person he truly genuinely loves the most. I don’t like how some want Suha to run away, I mean I personally wouldn’t run away just after seeing the imperfect side of my lover, I’d be there for them as they were for me. Unless it becomes super toxic even after I try to help.
I don’t see Suha trying hard to help, he promised to stay w Jiwoon until he’s comfortable but that won’t help cause Jiwoon locked him. Communication is key my friends.
I like how the writer is not afraid of showing this side of the seme. Years of mental abuse and trauma fucks you up good.You don’t magically heal overnight. The abandonment issues doesn’t go away in a jiffy just because someone loves u. Most mangas just skip it like nobody’s business. They fall in love and all the deep rooted trauma just vanishes overnight with the power of love. I like how the author is showing the ugly side and insecure part of it too. Its gonna take a long time and more than few words