is this r*pe?

Toast July 5, 2021 4:29 pm

So, I talked about the plot of the story with my mother, I say this is r*pe, but my mother thinks not. (Alpha pov) he’s about to have s*x with a ‘mishandled’ partner, he knows the truth of the gender and he says, "oh well, f*ck it" and he wants to do it anyway. that is fine, he has consented to have s*x with this anonymous person, despite not being what he originally asked for. (Omega pov) he’s about to have s*x with his 7-year long crush (good for him), by having manipulated the situation to his favour.

Here’s where it sits wrong with me. The alpha is probably thinking “I’m about to have s*x with someone I did not request, but oh well. He is someone I have no relation to, he probably doesn’t know who I am and I will never have to meet this person ever again.” BUT NO! he’s about to have s*x with his 7-year long stalker, who has manipulated the situation, so he could have ‘goodbye s*x’.

If this were me, I would feel violated and like I was r*ped. If the guy I was doing it with, actually knew everything about me and had been stalking me for 7 years.

But maybe I see wrong where there is none. Can y’all discuss this with me?

Responses
    I love Nakyum's ass July 5, 2021 8:10 pm

    you really talk about it with your mother ??

    Toast July 5, 2021 8:41 pm
    you really talk about it with your mother ?? I love Nakyum's ass

    that's all you got from this?

    yeah, we both like reading. i read bl and my mom reads realistic novels about the world. sometimes she tells me the plot and what she really likes about the story. and i tell her about the bl that either frustrates me or hits me emotionally.

    I love Nakyum's ass July 6, 2021 5:27 am

    HAHAHAHAHA I'm sorry but it's just- it's kinda surprised me because I've never seen someone who really talk about bl stuff with their parents , ahak I'm sorry again ╥﹏╥ btw you both are so sweet ( ̄∇ ̄")

    Toast July 6, 2021 1:27 pm

    thx, i'll tell my mom later (=・ω・=)
    now your opinion on the topic?

    I love Nakyum's ass July 6, 2021 7:45 pm
    thx, i'll tell my mom later (=・ω・=)now your opinion on the topic? Toast

    I think this is r*pe because, if the alpha know that the omega was stalking him and manipulated the situation he would never have s*x with that omega #-.-) but he seemed to enjoy it tho ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

    Toast July 6, 2021 11:30 pm

    exactly, but my mom does not see it that way and it frustrates me

    TheTenderVigilante July 12, 2021 12:35 am

    Sorry, but I respectfully disagree on your view that it’s rape. Rape is an act of violence carried out against the will of the other person. The alpha found out he was a man, got upset and stopped, then said f it, I can do it. The alpha found out he was an omega, stopped, then said f it, i can do it. He was lucid and present the whole time, so to call it rape it a far reach. Was the omega a creepy stalker who manipulated the situation to get what he wanted it, yes. Does the alpha have every right to be upset and feel manipulated when he finds out the omega planned it and it wasn’t an mishap, of course, but to call rape, it’s a big no for me. Yes, perhaps they would have never had sex if not for the omega orchestrating the whole thing, but the alpha still wanted to have sex even regardless of the omega not being his preference at all (male and omega). That makes me think him finding out the omega stalked him all those years wouldn’t be such a hard hit, considering he was hot shit on campus that every one wanted a piece. Doesn’t make it right but doesn’t make it rape, either.

    Toast July 12, 2021 1:39 am
    Sorry, but I respectfully disagree on your view that it’s rape. Rape is an act of violence carried out against the will of the other person. The alpha found out he was a man, got upset and stopped, then said ... TheTenderVigilante

    thx so much for coming with your opinion(づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ and i totally see you point.

    Noshame July 15, 2021 7:37 pm
    that's all you got from this?yeah, we both like reading. i read bl and my mom reads realistic novels about the world. sometimes she tells me the plot and what she really likes about the story. and i tell her ab... Toast

    I apologise, I read your first comment how you discuss bl stuff with your mother and laughed over it just as the first commenter. But immediately, after you explaining in your second reply, I find your relationship with your mother so sweet. I wish everyone would have open minded parents as yours, maybe people like us would not be afraid to talk their orientation and interest

    Noshame July 15, 2021 7:39 pm
    I apologise, I read your first comment how you discuss bl stuff with your mother and laughed over it just as the first commenter. But immediately, after you explaining in your second reply, I find your relatio... Noshame

    *as comfortably when others being interested in outer world.
    And regarding your op about if it is rape or not, I felt the same tbh.

    Toast July 15, 2021 9:28 pm
    I apologise, I read your first comment how you discuss bl stuff with your mother and laughed over it just as the first commenter. But immediately, after you explaining in your second reply, I find your relatio... Noshame

    aw, thank you. i'll tell my mom that. (づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ