In my opinion, uke would not be hated if he slept with other people. Also the way you wrote the comment makes it sound like you hate seme for getting a blowjob from Wen Zichen.
No like if I see one more comment hating on seme for getting a BJ from nurse istg-
Like first he was drunk like really drunk. He had just broken up with the love of his life and had heart problems. Also they broke up. THEY BROKE UP. Stop acting like it's a crime. I don't recall people hating on uke for kissing the other guy. He also has trauma with his family and shit and seeing uke in an accident triggered his trauma and like no one wouldn't break under such pressure. Like these ignorant ass comments saying that seme is an asshole istg-
If you read the manhwa, you'll see that seme really loves the uke and always tried his best for uke even though he isn't honest sometimes. He tried to protect the uke from worldly harm and he's so sweet like wth are y'all on
When did i say i hate the seme, i was just pointing out that in many other manhwas/manhua/manga if uke dares to sleep with someone other than seme pitch forks are raised everywhere.
You are 1000000% correct. People unconsciously apply gender roles to seme and ukes and refuse to admit it. When semes sleep around it’s seen as not that bad or excusable but there are SO MANY bl stories on here with comment sections going absolutely insane with slut shaming when ukes do it. I can literally give examples like…if you don’t see it your blind to be honest..
people are excusing for seme having a blowjob by other guy but if he was uke he would be branded and dirty or slut i've seen it in many comics if uke is sleeping with people other than seme he is hated i don't understand why people have double standards