He has his reason.

Nah, just because you have a shitty past doesn't give you the pass to be shitty to other people

Yeah but please remember he is Rape Victim. You can try to say that to rape victims that fighting againts their trauma from other gender or same gender. Also say that to people who love them  (the victims) and never stop to try step by step to gain the victims trust for them, even sometimes they only get rejection.
Here, the female lead is such a strong and understanding for the Male lead. She is made to cure the wounds in his heart and complete his imperfect with her perfection.
In this context (with the manhwa), the FL behaviors *before the soul changed* was not that good either to the King or his daughter even be called evil. So it's normal for the King to have doubt againts someone that onced not a good person suddenly in the blink of eyes just turn into someone like an angel. I just try to be wise, and open minded with a little bit sympathy.
The important thing is He DIDN'T HIT her or abuse her (beacuse i didn't agree to that either) But yes. I'm fully respect your opinion. Accepted. Thank you.

Yes, I know all of that, its simple psychology. Trauma cause changes in personality and people have different coping methods but as I said, it doesn't give them a pass for the things they did to be alright. Just because someone had trauma doesn't mean you have to stick around them and try to fix them, that's not healthy and I'm saying as someone who has trauma and had

-people stick with me all throughout, I wouldn't blame them if they just cut me off from their life especially of it's compromising their own mental healtg. It's not other people's job to fix people with trauma. Also the "he didn't hit her or abused her" kinda irked me, just because someone didn't physically abused someone doesn't mean they aren't abused at all, neglect is abuse too you know?

Yeah i got YOUR POINT. BUT hey in this context she has her right to stay with him even if you don't like IT. For an xample, just like you have trauma and i choose to stay with you, even if you don't like it or it's okay for you if i cut off you from my life BUT in the end IT'S MY CHOICE to stay with you and help to fix you.
That's why if she doesn't like him and don't wanna help him then that's okay. She can leave him there is no one force her to stay. BUT the POIN HERE, the STORY here is she's gonna fall for him, want to fix him and want to have beautiful life with him. Aside from our PERSONAL opinion, it's her Choice and decision not us. She is not you or me. Right? That's why i respect your prespective and not force you to have a mindset like me. It sounds like you didn't like King's personality when The Queen has no problem with it and want to love him. Just respect others point of views. If you don't like someone doesn't mean others don't like him/her too. Still i Respect Your MindSet.

And one thing. If I love you, it doesn't matter your past. If you can't accept me because you've been hurt, then i will try to make you open yourself to me. As long as i still can save and fix you, i will. If i'm the Queen just and you are the King, in the situation you feel it's okay if i leave you, i still wont. I won't let you be alone even if i have to be hurt a little. Yeah what i mean physical abuse is no, but when it comes to verbal abuse, it's still have a limit, if you call me 'Crazy' 'Stupid' then i still i can tolerate it for someone i care. IT wont be a Big Problem when someone just feel okay, but if it's burden you then walk away, just as simple as it. FOR you to know, both of us have different standard when it's come to love and care for someone.
Maybe with the King's behavior right know, you can't accept it when he treats you that way. But for me, if the King is someone i care, it doesn't matter. When i know what he've been through. Once again I respect your Point okay?

"""It's not OUR job to fix other people""". YES. But doen't mean i can't fix someone if i want right? Doesn't mean because people believe in that sentence so I can't Fix others right? Doesn't mean i can't help someone i care right? Doesn't mean i can fix a stranger right? You Can believe The Sentence the way you want it. But it's my RIGHT to decide. It's our rights to decide, you can't force others to have the same mindset as you. YES it is NOT HEALTHY IF the relationship become TOXIC. But as long as it's not and the person show a Positive progress then why not? Why not if we don't feel it as a burden? You you are my friend and have a problem with your mental health, i wont leave you and it's my choice. It's doesn't matter if you don't like me to stay with you and throw a rude words to me. When you help someone, don't expect them to do the same to you. Do it sincerely without any expectation. If you have expectation that's when you get hurt.

I never said that people shouldn't stick with a person with trauma if they want to, good for them if they want to but if they have a shitty attitude, people around them have the every right to call them out on that and still should face the consequences their shitty personality cause and not be tolerated because "he has his reasons". He experienced a traumatic event but being shitty is still shitty, he neglected two people that doesn't deserve to be neglected. My point is simple, a shitty person is still a shitty person with or without reason

Yes. A shitty person is still a shitty but it doesn't mean he/she can't be fix or have another change to be a better person and receive love. As long as there is someone willing to be with them and help them it's not a problem. 'Problem' happend if you feel burden while fixing them or be with them. So the choices are STAY or LEAVE too simple there is nothing for us to debate. You are a person that doesn't like 'That Kind' of situation no matter what the circumstances are BUT i am the person who can 'Tolerate That Kind' of situation base on the Circumstance. So you can decide to leave and i choose to stay. As simple as that sweet heart.
Someone i care can be Shitty but as long as the circumstance can be tolerate for me, then it's my problem and my choice to decide he/she deserves my care and love or not.

Yes, I got your point, with recent situation the King sure is 'Shitty' that's right. I can't argue with it. It just i have maybe more soft heart and more sympathy through his situation so i can understand him well. But that's okay if some poeple get irriatted with him and decided to not understand him. It's our own Rights. He is a shitty person in your eyes also for me but i can tolerate him based on his problem. It's simple i still willing to be a friend with shitty person with dark past, and you can keep stading on your principle. Both of us still can respect each other decisions.

Ah one thing that i want you to not confusing what my principle after all these essays.
I want to say that for me, if i were his friend. I wont hate, i wont judge, i wont get mad or anything. It's just simple that i let him feel the pain and the hatred. He has the right to feel those feelings after got raped in such a young age. He've been hurting by someone, his trust and dignity have been taken force fully without his consent. So i will tell him that he can show his resenment, he can get mad, he can feel the uncomfortable feeling when someone touch him especially women. All i want is for him to share his feelings with me so that it can lighten the pain in his heart. But i will ask his permission for a chance to embrace him with care and love hopefully it can erase the pain even a little. I wouldn't be care even if people say it's just wasting of time, we have different standard of living our own lives, so let people like me do it in our pinciples and people like you can go with your principles. After all that's how human can complete each other with out perfections and imperfections.

agree with you sis i feel sorry for mc... for more im here thanks to blance cuteness & mirrornim handsome face *kyaa (づ￣ ³￣)づ

hope to see mc & fl lovey dovey moments(▰˘◡˘▰)

Yes. Those are too is really cute. I'm bro not sist fyi. But yes i can't agree more with you about the daughter and prince inside the mirror. I'm a big fan with children and their innocent loveliness smile like the daughter. Haha