completely get your point and i feel the same but like ppl are so “truamatized” that it makes sense they cheat. they may not love their partner anymore but they stay and cheat bc they fear being alone. (i’m in no way condoning their behavior, but it’s what i understood from hearing others stories) ╮(￣▽￣)╭
Super late reply....But cheating isn't actually about wanting to be with more people, or falling in love with someone else. Cheating is a form of control, and a very twisted way people use to build self esteem. They are people that constantly need to seek our approval of others to gain self worth, and the idea of being with someone and cheating on them grants them a sense of superiority.
i just don't understand one thing.. if you can't love someone anymore why cheat first which lead to breakup, heartbreak, painful memories, hurtfulness, miserability or what not.. Why not just breakup give the person a complete disclosure to the relationship and then move to another..