Hello, my mom just found out about I was reading yaoi, literally smut she saw. She was gro...

Migou12 June 30, 2021 1:12 pm

Hello, my mom just found out about I was reading yaoi, literally smut she saw. She was grossed out and she still has my phone and can look through it whenever she wants to (I’m on my iPad) but I’m really scared if she is gonna tell everyone and what she will do with it. Now when I play a game or just watching YouTube videos she says ‘your face is all red are you reading that again?’ And every time it just makes me kinda panic I’m scared can anyone tell me what to do? I don’t know where my phone is but she knows the code and knows everything. Help me please or at least make me feel better if possible I’m shaking

Responses
    lina908 June 30, 2021 1:20 pm

    hey man i'm so sorry about what happened to you i know how you feel because something similar happened to me a while ago try not to think about it too much because it will only make you feel worse. if possible try and stay away from your mum for a bit because it looks like her constantly bringing it up isn't helping you feel better, what you did is nothing to be ashamed of and its clear that your mother doesn't understand that i hope you feel better soon <3

    Migou12 June 30, 2021 1:23 pm
    hey man i'm so sorry about what happened to you i know how you feel because something similar happened to me a while ago try not to think about it too much because it will only make you feel worse. if possible ... lina908

    Thank you so much I needed this <333

    Vrom vrom June 30, 2021 1:26 pm

    Im not really know the relationship you have, but she shouldn’t take your phone in the first place its yours! Ask her to give it back lmao its yours, its your privacy, and about ,,are you reading that again” just say ,,yes, jealous?” Dont be scared, what are you scared of? She already seen and if you like it then fine, do what you like its your life, AND TAKE YOUR PHONE BACK DAM IT ITS YOURS UHHHHH I CANT IM SORRY BUT SHE HAS NO FUCKING RIGHT, YOU ARE NOT TAKING HER’S WITHOUT PERMISSION SO SHE SHOULDN'T EITHER

    solace June 30, 2021 1:38 pm

    maybe stay away from gadgets first and let your mom see that you're doing something else like reading books or cleaning your room. idk if this would work for you, but i used to do this whenever my mom confiscates my cellphone back then and it worked for me. if u can't stop using your ipad for awhile, then try to watch or play everything with high volume so she wouldn't suspect anything.

    Migou12 June 30, 2021 1:40 pm
    Im not really know the relationship you have, but she shouldn’t take your phone in the first place its yours! Ask her to give it back lmao its yours, its your privacy, and about ,,are you reading that again�... Vrom vrom

    Thank you <3 and yeah our relationship isnt really the healthiest, she takes it away pretty often actually everyday it is rare if I have my phone normally my iPad or just anything too but now I should be doing school work so I have an excuse ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ but yeah I don’t know when I’ll get it back she is pretty mad at me but thank you again

    Migou12 June 30, 2021 1:41 pm
    maybe stay away from gadgets first and let your mom see that you're doing something else like reading books or cleaning your room. idk if this would work for you, but i used to do this whenever my mom confiscat... solace

    Thank you so much your help is really comforting, I will do that! <3